I'm not immune to the Question March fever. Many of the bloggers in our community are inviting their readers to pose questions and then answering them. "Why not?" I thought, and maybe blend it with brunch? The challenge is that I've been answering questions for seven and a half years and I can't imagine what else new or interesting I have to reveal. Then it came to me...
For bloggers, what do wish your readers would ask you? What little known facts would you most like to tell them? For readers, which questions do want to ask but don't? What new information do you wish your favorite bloggers would share with you?
Let's have some fun with this one! Once everyone has responded, I will post an edited summary.
16 comments :
Hi,
I have published many posts with memes. Also, I answered four sets of questions from bloggers several months ago. So, I have very few little known facts left to tell. I have also contributed many questions to my blogger friends so I do not have much more to ask of them.
I would really welcome questions from readers who do not comment who want to learn more about spanking, BDSM or the scene. I wish some of them would just summon the courage to ask a question of me. I know it is very hard to take that first step so for me it is very rewarding when they ask their first question.
Hug,
joey
Hi there Bonnie,
Thanks for the brunch invite! :) I would love to have a nice plate of pasta just like that^! YUM!
My loving husband and HoH does not let me blog, so in many ways I feel a bit like I'm taking and not really giving. It makes me feel kind of bad because I have gotten so so much out of months of lurking and then commenting and interacting with members of this community. It has been life changing for us. While our story is simply our story, it could help someone in the same way. I kind of struggle with that. Anyway, thanks to all of you who share. It makes a difference, ya know?
I love reading all of the questions and answers. I think if I have a question, I usually ask it of someone. I have found a lot of answers to things that I have been wondering about, or concerned about just by reading around Blogland. I have gotten so much out of people's posts. I do find that the comments that follow each are, in and of themselves great thinking/learning material. So I can't think of any new questions to ask specifically. I do like to hear little bits of fun stuff from people who blog. Stuff like favorite foods, activities, etc.
New information- I wish that I could see some of the older stuff that some of the bloggers no longer share, due to privacy things, etc. I can think of a couple now specifically that I wish I had a window on. The earlier part of their journeys really. I am always grateful for the stuff that bloggers put out there.
<3 Katie
I posed my questions in my blog post a couple of days ago. Basically, I asked about whether women who like to be spanked ever fantasize about spanking. I'd also like to know whether those who only "agree to" be spanked (when the bf/husband brings up the idea) ever have spanking fantasies. It seems to me there are two major categories of spanked women: those who fantasize about spanking and enjoy the spanking activities immensely (even if not the actual spanking) and those who would never fantasize about being spanked and agree to spanking only because they enjoy being in a domestic discipline relationship. It seems that these two groups approach the subject in radically different ways.
I fantasized about spanking before I knew what a fantasy was. Later, in reading the Nancy Friday books, I came to recognize that spanking was a major turn-on for me. I could probably give up actual spanking for fantasizing my bf in a spanking scenario, but I think I'd prefer to have a taste of the real thing, at least occasionally, to keep the fantasies on track.
I also addressed the role of spanking stories (real or fiction) and videos in a spankee's life. Visit my blog to see more.
I'm always interested in beginnings. How people got started in the lifestyle. And, what drew them to it. Was it a fascination with the act of spanking itself, or something else, like a desire to give up control or submit to someone else's authority. Also, does anyone other than your partner know about your spanking proclivities. If so, how did that come about and how did they react?
I have already invited my readers to ask questions, and have another set of answers ready to go this week.
Since I know that new bloggers are faced with real challenges in terms of learning all about their chosen platform for blogging (WordPress, Blogger, Tumblr and others), I would love to answer any questions my readers might have about using Blogger.
Bonnie, Here is an interesting question for you. Have you ever met, one of your 'spanking blogger's. And if not. Which one would you wish to meet, if you could.
Hi Bonnie,
I am not sure I would want to be asked for "little known" info about me; I have this awful problem which causes me much inward conflict. I cannot lie or "make things up"; I do not embroider or fake things. Consequently I live in fear of being discovered by someone in "real life" reading my blog and recognising me from the facts I fail to keep secret!
Yet to be honest, if I told people exactly what goes on in real life it would sound like a fabrication, my life is so complicated!!!!!! xxx
This may have been asked before but . . . how in the world do you get such fantastic images of the food you post with each weekly brunch? Any of it of your own making? Do you ever eat that stuff? And if you do, how in the world do you keep such a nice figure?!
Have you ever been injured?
Bea
As a blog reader, I think it's fun to learn a bit more about other bloggers whether it's spanking related or not. As a blog writer, I don't mind sharing tidbits about myself whether vanilla stuff or spanking related. I can't think of any particular questions I'd want to answer.
I've shared a lot through posts and memes. I've recently asked my readers if they have questions and will be answering some tomorrow with the rest to follow in the week. The questions are varied not all spanking related.
I'm interested to read about how people met and how they got interested in this lifestyle and the little fun vanilla things.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
My question - Just why do some ladies, probably a small minority, need to get their nice bottoms, spanked, paddles, strapped caned or whatever, making them smarting, sore and marked , and difficult to sit on , in order to get their thrills ? In may case, a sound spanking from D gives me all the excitement and thrill I need to get me turned on, but it dose not really make sense ! S
I've answered a lot of questions this month.
I really could not think of anything I would like to be asked.
But on the other hand, I'm surprised (and extremely happy) that one question has never been asked:
"Why is there hardly any spanking, sex or discipline in my DD, M/s, spanking and sex blog?."
Please, dear readers, don't see this as an encouragement to ask this question. I've already asked it and we never do the same question twice.
My observations is that most spanking relationships, especially DD relationships, that I read about on the we, were initiated, or asked for, by the female partner. I'm interested in reading stories of how male-initiated spanking relationships have worked out, and in particular, stories of how spanko males have successfully "converted" vanilla females to a spanking or DD lifestyle. Mick (of Mick and Lynda's place) is one case of a male initiatied DD relationship. (http://mickandlyndasblog.blogspot.ca/) I'd love to read other rl stories of how men have taken their women in hand, as it were, without having been "invited" to by the woman. As we're all aware, the prevailing feminist paradigm leads to viewing male domination as something undesireable and of the past. Any yet, that's the basis of a lot of spanking play and spanking and and DD relationships.
Really I'm happy to allow them to ask me most anything.
However, I particularly like questions about my non-spanking interests, my past spanking experience, and my general philosophy about spanking and discipline.
I love talking to my readers. :)
I feel like I have a tendency to over-share. In updating my blog in the past month or so, I went back and reread all my old posts. I definitely had a few moments of "Ohmygosh I wrote about that?" I don't receive many questions. My favorite theme, though, is when people send me a description of a scenario and ask me what I think. I love when people share those bits of themselves, and it makes me want to share more of myself as well. I wouldn't mind non-spanking questions, but I do consider blogging to be for this particular aspect of myself, and while the vanilla questions like favorite movie (The Neverending Story), favorite band (The Cure), or favorite writer (Marguerite Duras) may help build an overall picture of me, it's the spanking questions that bring the parts together into a whole. Plus, I love hearing other people's spanking fantasies. I get to be both voyeur and exhibitionist, and sometimes it even leads to a good short story or fantasy I can share on the blog.
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