Hello again and welcome back, my friends. This week's topic was raised by a very nice young lurker named Dori. She is looking to establish a long term relationship where M/F spanking is a major element. I don't have too much relevant experience to share with her, but I'm sure many of you do.
When dating in presumably vanilla circles, are there any clues that might indicate a spanking interest in a potential partner? Are there any "litmus test" questions that sound innocent to a vanilla, but would prompt a true spanko to show himself? Or is it simply a mistake to expect to find a spanking enthusiast within the general population?
I would appreciate any guidance you can provide for Dori. As always, you are invited to answer our question by entering a comment below. At the end of the weekend, I will post an edited summary.