Are you or your partner instructed to retrieve a specific implement in preparation for its use on the spankee's bottom? If so, how do you feel about this ritual? If not, is this something you might want to try?
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Occasionally, Master will have be go get an implement and hand it to Him. It is usually during a punishment session, and made of wood. It certainly makes me think about what is coming and why I find myself in this position
abby
No, but we will sometimes get out what we want used on us.
I can only recall a handful of times where I have been instructed to retrieve a specific implement. Mostly, tho, he will retrieve things as he decided he wants to use them.
sarah
Not yet-
Like Mrs. Soft Bottom, I have not yet been sent to fetch an implement. I surely hope that someday I will be-I'm trying hard to be submissive, not top from below.....A woman can dream, though, right?
DH always makes me go and get the implement. Sometimes he has me standing there looking at it, waiting, and other times, he will just get straight to it. I think this really does add a certain something to the spanking. :D
Ron always chooses the implements he wants to use, but he also gets out the toybox and allows me to choose an additional paddle or two. I've never been sent for a specific implement but it would add a delightful frisson to the proceedings.
Yes, always. Submitting to this is usually harder for me than submitting to the spanking itself.
I've never been sent to get one. I usually don't know what he's using until I feel it on my backside. I wouldn't mind if he sent me to get one if I got to pick it out. I might feel differently if he told me to get a specific one and it was one I don't like!
Yes, Davey has sent me to get implements. And it is always done as part of the punishment... he knows I hate to have to obey him at that PARTICULAR point in the proceedings! Sometimes I protest and show my unwillingness to comply; he just raises his eyebrows at me and I know at that stage I am likely to suffer more if I don't.... xxx
Yes and I think it's hot.
What I relish most in fetching an implement is in the moments before when he whispers in my ear exactly what is about to happen. That sort of foreplay gets me so hot and bothered that I'm practically leaping out of his lap to get it.
Other times I'm given a choice in which case it's like me browsing books at a bookstore... instead of dragging my fingers across the spines of books, I'm touching the various implements, waiting for one to scream out to me.
xo,
SC
Like those who have already posted in the affirmative, I, too, have often been told to fetch a specific implement to further my correction. The first time in this relationship was when my lover stopped spanking and replaced my panties far earlier than I expected, only to be instructed to go into the backyard to cut a switch for my bottom's benefit. We have a privacy fence, that wasn't the issue; it was just so unexpected, it upped the ante mind-blowingly (and soon thereafter butt-bustingly). It's always in a punishment session, it's always wooden implements I'm made to fetch (because he knows I hate them).
Jean Marie
I've had to do this a few times, and for me, it certainly adds a whole other element to the punishment. There's something about going to get the implement that is about to set your butt on fire, that makes it that much more effective! Kind of like sealing your own fate in a way.
It makes me so antsy just thinking about it! It has the facade of the bottom being in control when in reality, it's the most submissive act that she (or he) can do. I would definitely like to do it someday :)
Occasionally, I've been told to go get whatever implement and give it to the top. It can work for me in a certain headspace because it makes me feel more submissive and giving in to what is happening. Being asked to CHOOSE which implement gets used is even harder than that though.
I usually play away from home and am instructed to bring a toy or two with me. It is a bit of a thrill being on a train and knowing that there is a flogger, strap or something like that, in my shoulder bag and I often wonder what my fellow travelers would think, if they knew what I was carrying.
Prefectdt
Couple of times P has made me go and get a particular implement which does make me think what's coming but normally he decides what he's going to use.
Love,
Ronnie
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eeeeeep, my cheeks are already neeping in thinking about this question..... Hubby likes me to go and get out the wooden hairbrush when he is ready for DD to happen. I will protest, but this only makes matters worse.
However if we are enjoying a yummy spanking, I get to choose my best toys!
It is something that I have not done, but I have been considering adding the practice to certain aspects of the sessions that I would like to do.
Being instructed to and then retrieving the implement to be used does change the mindset of the session. Ot goes from being a fun type to a more formal kind of scene.
It depends on the spanking. Steve keeps the wooden spoon right beside the bed so it's easily accessible. It's very rare that he tells me to get it. When he decides the belt is in order, though, he always tells me to get it. He knows just the thought of the belt gives me that feeling in the pit of my stomach so having to bring it to him is torture in itself. But it also increases my feelings of submission in bringing him an implement I definitely don't want him to use.
I have had to retrieve my hairbrush or the paddle for the few spankings I have had. I do like having to get the implement. I get a queasy feeling in my stomach and think, "What have I gotten myself into??" Definite submission and acceptance of the spanking.
A related question: Does anyone ever place an implement in plain site in a private place like your bedroom as a hint? I've considered doing this but I haven't tried it yet. I can imagine myself excited to place it on the bed, only to regret it later when it is "found".
We're in an apt that has nails from previous tenants in the bedroom. It just happens to hold the heart shaped paddle, bath brush, and flogger nicely and on the wall that most would not look at. Even if someone saw it, really I don't think they would make the leap. Onto Bonnie's question:
It depends. If it's a punishment spanking I have to get over the bed while he chooses. If it's for release/stress I get to hand it to him. :)
I have on several occasions been made to go get something, and it's usually something pretty scary, like a bath brush. When SincereM wanted to switch me, he would make me go out and cut the switches. They were so nasty...
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