Saturday, January 28, 2012

MBS Spanko Brunch #315

Welcome, my friends, to the latest in our continuing series of community conversations. Our topic this week was inspired by my dear husband's love of symmetry.

Do you or your partner ever deliver extra spanks to one side in order to "even up" the spanking? If so, is this a regular practice or an exception. Does the use of "evening up" swats depend upon the position, implement, or purpose? How does the spankee feel about this technique?

If you'd like to join the fun, please enter your response in the form of a comment below. Once everyone has had a turn, I will post an edited summary.

23 comments :

abby said...

Mater is an engineer...He always likes to have everything nice and even! abby

sunnygirl said...

My husband is precise in everything he does - including spanking.

Dragon's Rose said...

If it is a fun spanking he may give a few extra swats to even out the pink.

Warm ups are just for spankings. Punishment doesn't last long enough to have a warm up.

juliesp said...

I either want it completely the same, or sometimes I spank on only one side, leaving the other lilly white.

Scunge said...

It drives me CRAZY when R chooses to spank with an uneven number,I actually ASK for even!

Spanky said...

I frequently do this during our OTK spankings, which are given bare handed, to even out the glow. When spanking OTK I get different angles with each hand, so the results are somewhat different depending which side I'm working on and which hand I'm using. I like to keep things nice and even, and never spank only one side during a session!

With larger paddles, she gets both sides at once. With smaller paddles, I like to keep the sides even also.

I think Kallisto feels good about it; I'm not getting any complaints!

L. said...

He's not systematic and sometimes he'll unintentionally land too many swats on one side. I point it out to him and he obliges me by evening things out.

Penelope said...

No real obsession with symmetry in our little spanknest. I generally prefer a nice right-left, right-left as the basis of my spanking, but anything thrown in to vary it is perfectly OK - a sudden succession of spanks to one cheek can make for a really nice extra punishment (for e.g. answering back).

Hermione said...

I hate the feeling of being uneven, and my husband is usually pretty good about delivering the same number of swats to each side. Sometimes I get a few in a row on one cheek before he delivers the same on the other, but more often it's single spanks on each one in turn.

In a playful situation he sometimes gives me a spank or two on one side then stops. I'll often ask him to "even me out."

Spankedhortic II said...

This spankee appreciates this technique a lot. I hate that one sided feeling, especially in an OTK spanking where the spanker has over favoured the far buttock.

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Kitty said...

I get spanked unevenly at times (punishment, usually).

Kitty

sixofthebest said...

Dear Bonnie, I try to give both sides of a womans delectable bare derriere equal justice. Yes, I try to make them evenly blushing red.

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Lea said...

Yes, I've received extra swats many times to even things out. I don't ever get fully spanked on just one cheek, which would be horrid, but especially with being OTK one side tends to get it a little more than the other. So, it happens.

thecanery said...

I can't see the point, really. Surely we play these games for the pain and pleasure, the endorphin high.

ronnie said...

P sometimes spanks one cheek more than the other intentionally and then of course he has to even up the heat/colour of the other cheek. This can go on for a while:)

Love,
Ronnie
xx

naughtyney said...

Bonnie, What a wonderful post. My top is very aware of whether or not my bottom is getting rosy enough. So I will very often get a few extras on one side or the other if I'm not quite rosy enough. The problem is that that includes the thighs. Ugggghh. Have a great day. Naughtyney

sarah thorne said...

I've had it happen, but it's not been anything obsessive, excessive, or noteworthy really. So I don't really have an issue with the technique.

sarah

Michael said...

Bonnie, great question from Randy, and is his interest in symmetry just an excuse to smack your bottom more or does he have a touch of OCD? :-)

I try to even swats out on Season's bottom to avoid having one cheek show bruises - something we both don't like as we prefer her to have a nice even glowing red bottom. Though during Season's spanking I will not just alternate cheeks as that gets too metronomic and unimaginative. It drives Season wild and I need to hold her tightly in place when I give her many consecutive spanks on the same spot then repeat this process on her other cheek to even her out. I will also tease her and say one cheek is redder than the other and proceed to smack one side then say "Oops" now that side is too red so I must slap her other cheek. In theory I could keep this up indefinitely but will soon stop after Season whines and pouts but only to move onto the more amorous part of her spanking. ;)

Elysia said...

Yes, Henry will deliver extra spanks to one side to even things up. I brought the question to him for his input, and he said the reason is that the outside cheek often gets an unfair amount of attention, so he will deliver some more purposefully to the inner cheek. This is a regular part of Maintenance and Erotic spankings. If it's a punishment spanking, it's administered deliberately to the "sweet spot" only -there's never any movin' around on his part anyway.(giggle) We use implements for any, so it's then the same as above. I think Henry has the techniques "down pat" or "down spank". What he does, does the job for both of us. ;-)
Oh, and one time he asked me to get up and lay over on his other side. That REALLY evened things up!

R Humphries said...

Hi Guys … Symmetry is poetry … and poetry is spanking up one buttock cheek and back down the other, so to speak … of course, originating from the shores of Blighty, everything spanking is dominated by the magic spanko number of six and whether using a cane, paddle, hairbrush, slipper, strap or simply your hand as long as you deliver in sets of six then everything will remain symmetrical … whoa that was geekish … Cheers … RH

TheVBB said...

My wife likes to visit both sides and leave each side equally red when she gives me an OTK. She actually looks for any white spots and actually seems excited when she finds any. She goes right after the white spots to make sure every inch is red. Althoug when she is giving me a school type paddlings she does not focus so much on getting both sides even, she just goes at it which usually leaves one side more red. I try to help her out by moving to one side but she usually adjust her swing.

When we are having a session with our disciplinarian there is not an issue with one side being uneven as my wife is right handed and our disciplinarian is left handed. So when the team up my poor bum is thoroughly spank evenly.

kiwigirliegirl said...

Ive never actually notices, im kinda too caught up in the moment...ill have to pay attention next time -
love and hugs kiwi xxx

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