Do you and your partner employ corner time as a part of your spanking activities? If so, how does it fit in with spankings, and with your overall relationship? If not, why not? Would you consider trying corner time?
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Hmm, I read on others blogs that most people use "corner time" as part of a disciplinary process. Grant was adamantly opposed to that for numerous reasons. He felt it was not something he wanted for me or us as part of Dd. He does use it for submission and errotic 'play time'. So for me, it has a whole different meaning and I think is a different sort of experience than most write about. Sara
We have no interest in it.
It is not part of our punishment spankings. Master did try it early on, and it just was not working. I may not get out of position until I have permission, that is my thinking time. abby
Yes we use corner time. It is a good place to be whilst waiting for a punishment or maintenance spanking. It is used sometimes after a spanking.
It is good thinking time.
Yes, 'corner time', is an important part of corporally punishing a naughty woman. Before a spanking I make her stand there with her dress raised showing her panties. After she has been punished she returns their with her panties down, showing her spanked naked rear end. Plus, if it is a caning, the implement is also left there.
I will only consider it either before the spanking starts or for very, very short periods during play. There is something about the feeling of isolation and abandonment, after all the attention, that presses some very negative buttons in my head, I can't do too much corner time. I have never cried real tears as a result of a spanking but I have blubbed like a little baby, after being left in a corner too long.
Prefectdt
Our spankings are never disciplinary, so cornertime has no place in our play or our relationship. We wouldn't consider doing it for several reasons, one being the lack of empty corners in our house.
I often send my spankee's to the corner once they have been warmed & been warned that far worse is to come. Hands on head, red bottoms on show !! Essential I think !
MarQe
Usually my spankings are erotic and sex ensues afterward, but every once in a blue moon (or should I say my red moon), I'm told to go stand in the corner and show off my glow and think about what just transpired. I always leave the corner as horny as hell.
Jean Marie
I agree with Sara and MarQe's Study- corner time for my lady is very much erotic and disciplinary. I like checking out my work, and she must stay in place, legs spread with hands on her head. This often leads to touching and massaging her, often starting the aftercare with some lotion for her sore bottom. She is often blindfolded and gagged, so she can neither see nor voaclize her feelings, although her moans are a very good indication of how she feels.
We both are very horny when this is finished. The rest i leave to your imgination- I think jean Maire will have a very good idea.
Our spankings are only for fun. So the only thing our corners are used for is catching dustbunnies.
Have not & most likely will not add corner time. Our spankings are for "play time"~ part of foreplay for sexual reasons only.
Make Mine Red
I have done it on a few occasions. It isn't ALWAYS a part of the process but can work in some situations. I think the length of time spent in the corner is important because in my opinion, anything over maybe 5 minutes is just overkill. Defeats the purpose for me because my mind will wander to other things like what I need to do the next day and who I think kidnapped Johnny on Days of our Lives. Lol.
It can be effective though, moreso when used with a disciplinary spanking. I experienced that this past week in fact. Having to be in the corner and not be able to see what he is doing behind me as he rummages through his implements and God knows what else is maddening!
Ordinarily, no, I don't use corner time. I could see adding it in to a scene with the right person--but even then, probably not every time.
I have never been told to go the corner...... and your question today made me think about it.....
I think one of two things might happen... I might get a terrible fit of the giggles (seeing in my mind's eye how silly I would look in the corner) OR (and the most likely reaction) I would get a little pissy... probably stamp my foot...
Either way I am afraid I wouldn't take it all that seriously
We sometimes incorporate corner time into the mix. We've used it both in disciplinary situations as well as in role-play. Michael wrote a post about corner time a few years ago (before I knew him) and it pushed a lot of buttons for me. I wrote a post about our first corner time experience together, and we eventually combined both our posts into this post: Corner Time: He Said/She Said http://seasonandmichael.wordpress.com/2011/04/16/corner-time-he-saidshe-said/
It always has the power to make me squirm and blush profusely.
Corner time has no part in our spanking. We did try it but didn't work for us and see no reason to try again.
Love,
Ronnie
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My first spanker was very much into cornertime. R is not he just doesn't see the value,I on the other hand would LOVE the break every now and then. ;-)
mmmm i like the idea of it. I have suggested we try it but its never happened. I once emailed him and asked him to send me there, he read it, told me to go stand in teh corner and thinka bout my actions, i didnt and he didt push it so it didnt happen.
Id like to try it though.
We use corner time on occasion. Recently, ok yesterday I was sent to the corner before a very serious punishment spanking. I was told to go there and think about what got me in trouble in the first place. I didn't think about that at all. I thought about what was about to happen, how it would happen, what implements would be used, etc. Corner time really doesn't seem to work for me. On the other hand, my husband enjoys it because he sees me with my panties down and he enjoys that. Well at least its working for one of us. Oh yeah, and it did serve to put off the inevitable. LOL
dear bonnie corner time is very important to us asit gives me time to think why I`m going to get spanked and what I`m going to get.Plus it gives her time to calm down and not just hit me with the first thing at hand,but time to give me what I deserve.then deliver it.dave north england
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