Saturday, November 12, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #304

Happily, we all survived our Love Our Lurkers Day 6 celebration. Thanks to everyone who helped to make this our best event yet. I hope you had a good time. I will post more about LOL Day 6 on Monday.

Now, however, it's time for brunch. Here's a good question that I don't believe we've ever discussed before.

To what degree do you consider yourself a "pure spanko?" For the sake of this conversation, let's assume that a pure spanko is someone who is interested solely in striking of the bottom and no other body parts. In addition, he or she is not interested in other kinky or sexual activities (such as restraint, wax, vibrators, etc.) in conjunction with the spanking.

So what do you think? I invite you to record your response in the form of a comment below. Once everyone has spoken, I will post an edited summary of the proceedings.

24 comments :

sarah thorne said...

I don't know how to put it into percentage, but spanking is a huge chunk of my kink. One of the biggest factors, in fact. However, I do like a lot of mild BDSM stuff, and consensual non-consent in conjunction with that kink.

I dunno. I am not very 'pure' by your description. Maybe 60%?

Sara said...

Wow, I didn't even know there WAS such a thing as a "pure spanko"! Like...NO interest in other sexual activity or play? That seems kind of...well very, boring to me! "Variety is the spice of life" and all that! Sara

James said...

I agree with Sara, I mean I love spanking, but I also enjoy the other pleasures that go with it.

James

Curtis said...

Semi-pure here. Basically into OTK hand spanking. Not into BDSM, discipline, punishmemnt, etc. But then there's the question of sex and vibrators and that can, with the right person, be very much part of agenda, with mutual interest and consent.

Dragon's Rose said...

I love a little kink with my whips and paddles, I do admit. Otk by itself would be dull and all punishment without play? No way!

sixofthebest said...

Bonnie, I would consider myself a 'pure spanko'. Yes, the only part of the body that interests me, is a naughty lady's bare bottom. And I love to spank it. Be it with the hand, paddle, hairbrush, birchrod, or cane. Yes, down with her panties, knickers, or bloomers, and spank it most enjoyably blushingly red.

faerie said...

I'm definitely not a purist by the definition given. I am very interested in other kinky stuff and thanks to all the reading I've been doing I have found all kinds of stuff I never thought of. My husband is more then willing to help me explore, though sometimes I think he welcomes going back to work on Mondays just to get some rest. LOL. I have encouraged him to complain to his friends that he is getting too much sex as I'm sure they will commiserate with him. Yeah, that usually gets me a swat as he's walking out the door. HeeHeeHee.

Hermione said...

I consider myself to be a true spanks because spanking, and only spanking, excites me, whether by thought, word or deed. I don't care to be swatted on any part of my body other than my bottom. As for other BDSM-related activities, I have no desire to try the few I know about. Vibrators are fun, but they don't figure in our spanking scenarios. Being restrained is an exciting but very rare occurrence. I enjoy it only in the context of being spanked, not for its own sake. So I'd rate myself at about 98%. Nobody's perfect.

Duality said...

I also agree with Sara. Spanking definitely has its place and it sets the framework for most everything we do, but its not the only thing. So maybe half for me.

abby said...

I would say....maybe 30% Spanking is almost always a part, but there are lots of extra add-ons that I also love! abby

sunnygirl said...

I am with Hermione. Spanking excites me in thought word and deed and I don't want to be spanked in any area but my bottom. Not interested in any other BDSM -have tried a few things and it's okay but not necessary. Love the vibrators tho - they always enhance the experience for me.

Kitty said...

Well, considering I had never been spanked until earlier this year, I'd say spanking is a fun addition to many other activities involving sex, but it's not the most important.

Kitty

A.S.S. said...

We consider spanking our ~main~ kinky interest, but it most certainly isn't the only interest (including other types of non-bottom spanking). We're spankos that are into other things... not people that are into lots of things, including spanking. So spanking first, for sure, but then a decent size list below that.

:)
~Todd and Suzy

Grace said...

I'm with Sara...variety is the spice of life! ;)

Fred Bloggs said...

I am a pure pervert, into all kinds of stuff. Spanking is just a teeny weeny part of my kink.

Dr. Ken said...

I'm don't know that I'm a "pure spanko"...but I'm probably pretty darn close!

Lisa (Tantra Flower) said...

I don't have much experience. I know I only like to be spanked on my bare bottom and only with hands. My ex-husband was the first man I ever trusted with this fetish of mine and I haven't found anyone since. Spanking is just one of many things that excite me, but I don't think I could be fully satisfied with a sex life that did not include it. Glad I found your blog. Thanks. x

Daisychain said...

Hmmm....I am with Hermione here...
I'm not into vibrators, masturbation, being spanked anywhere other than my bottom.... restraints, occasionally for spanking purposes only... I do find anything spanking related turns me on, sends little thrills of pleasure through me, and I HAVE had an orgasm from a spanking alone (awesome). As for vibrators, wax, etc, NO THANK YOU! SO I guess I am about 98% pure spanko? xxxxxxxxx

Florida Dom said...

I like spanking but it is just one tasty dish on the menu for me. I like to sample many, many dishes.

FD

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

I have and probably will again, dabbled my toes in BDSM waters but this just tends to reinforce my feelings that I am only really interested in being at the receiving end of corporal punishment.

I feel that there is more to spanking than getting it on the butt though. Tawsing on the hands is strong in the spanko tradition, for an example.

Prefectdt

joeyred51 said...

I am not a pure spanko. I enjoy other types of play as well. Also, I find Shibari rope bondage lots of fun, as both bottom and top.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

I am 100% pure. Bacall likes a little light bondage once in awhile.

After the spanking is complete we both want release, either coupled or via electro-mechanical means. If you meant spanking without sex, it would be why bother for us.

ronnie said...

Good question Bonnie.

Variety is the spice of life and we are all different but for me the spice is the spanking. Restrains I like but only if part of spanking and as Daisy says to have an orgasm from spanking is something else.
So would that make me a "pure spanko" no not totally.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

poured out said...

Definitely not a "pure" spanko. While almost every session with Sir begins with a spanking, it is more like an appetizer!

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