It's now October and the middle of autumn for those of us in the Northern Hemisphere. With changing leaves come other changes, some subtle and others unmistakable. Even as we discard the old, we are tempted by the new. For spanking enthusiasts, this means discovering innovative ways to explore and enrich our kink together.
Do you or your partner use clothing to define, frame, or influence a spanking session? If so, in what ways?
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Oh yes there are a pair of white trousers my wife will wear around the house that lets me know that a spanking is needed. Certainly not the only time she gets one but if it's been a while..
Our spankings are pretty much "come as you are" so we don't go to any trouble with clothing. Ron will change, though, if he's been working in the garden. I dress casually too, but I usually make sure I'm wearing a nice top that's long enough to cover part of my bottom, so he can lift it up out of the way before he starts.
HUH. Clothing? I could wear a suit of armour, or a bathing suit...makes no difference at all. The only suit I get spanked in is my birthday suit!!!!! xxx
oh, and one more thing...here in the UK, we are having hotter weather in September/October than we did at the height of summer!!!! It was in the 90s today, again!
Paul has a uniform fetish so, assuming the weather isn't too hot, I tend to wear a formal school uniform for our planned scenes. Not as part of a roleplay but as a form of submission to show I'm subject to authority.
I have a school uniform type outfit just for fun but generally clothing is what it is. Most of it is going to come off anyway, so why go through a big effort picking something out? Lol.
Not really. The ladies I play with might wear a dress or a skirt just because they knnow it's easier for me to pull that up than to deal with jeans, but that's about the only clothing issue that enters into it. Otherwise, it's a case of, "What you're wearing is fine. It won't stay in place for long, anyway".
Uncle Nick does have a thing about nice looking knickers...for whatever reason I do not know - it does not stay on.
Raven
I'm not sure that this fits in with your original question but I use a man thong (or not) to differentiate between types of spankings.
With a play partner I always wear the thong, when playing, bare assed but without the junk on display. With a relationship or sexual partner I play without.
There is no big modesty or ethical thing about this, it just sends a psychological message to the guy downstairs.
Thong on = It's not that type of spanking and there is nothing for you to get exited about.
Thong off = Full steam ahead boyo
It is not foolproof but 99 times out of a hundred it works OK.
Prefectdt
I spend a silly amount of money and time on beautiful knickers and I swear not one pair is noticed.
So I like to dress prettily but I am not sure the man that spanks me would say the same thing. He just would not notice.
I also like to wear dresses and skirts, it makes me feel more of a girl to his man- if you know what I mean ;)
If I get the itch that my bottom needs attention, with something severe like a cane or strap, I put on a pair of very tight thin jeans, which hug my plump bottom like a second skin. D knows just what this means, and very soon they are stretched even tighter, as I am well bent over. The thin jean does not soften the smart at all, but does help to prevent severe marking.
For fun spankings, I like to wear big flouncy skirts, petticoats, and frilly undies, for D to dig his way through, so that his palm can have it's wicked way with my poor bare bottom .S.
Hubby much prefers skirts for easier access and I wear them almost every day. I find something deeply exciting and humiliating about pulling down pants though (but I haven't told him that).
I always make sure I have on some sexy knickers even though I know they wont be on for long.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Michael always says my panties look best when crumpled on the floor. Sheesh! Clothing does sometimes play a part in our spanking life. One example is when we have a "red bottom day". Recently Michael started the day by dictating what I was to wear - a white tank top and NOTHING else. Then I was told to go about my regular day. However, it was interspersed with a variety of spankings, some corner time, and other activities.
Hi Guys … I am very blessed that MBJ is of a theatrical bent and embraces my preference for role-playing, rituals, and uniforms … anybody who has ever visited my blog can probably guess the main theme of our games … that is not to say our plays are either planned or scripted, in fact they are more often than not either spontaneous or the result of us text-teasing each other during the day … I frequently come home to find MBJ dressed in my favorite outfit and the cane lying ready on the bed … as our relationship is not based on a DD lifestyle per se this suits us both (although I am the boss dammit!) … Cheers … RH
I wear a pair of clean, faded jeans that are faily thin and they will stay on. If I bruised a bit with them on, I sure won't be taking them down! :-)
As for a top, I will wear a T-shirt that has some design on it or just plain.
I need a new pair of tennie runners, too. I live in red dirt country. LOL
Oh, and my top is ok with it. :-)
One more thing: my jeans don't have pockets.
I have a huge preference to just getting spanked in whatever I was wearing without putting too much pomp and circumstance into things. I find that spontaneity in spankings makes me feel much more submissive. I adore the feelings that I'm going to get a spanking right here, right now (add on bonus points if it's simply because he feels like it!) I also prefer the feeling that being spanked is part of my "regular" life and is not compartmentalized. I know that some people feel the exact opposite way, and I think both are very valid.
I also have very few articles of clothing that I haven't been spanked in, and I like that :)
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