Saturday, September 17, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #296

Happy weekend, dear friends. Our topic this week is drawn from a recent observation by my husband, Randy. We wonder how universal it might be.

Immediately after receiving a spanking, do you find that the spankee is more compliant to requests (such as stand in the corner, pose for photographs, retrieve toys, participate in sex acts, discuss otherwise difficult topics, etc.)?

We'd love to know what you think. To join the fun, simply enter your response in the form of a comment below. At the end of the weekend, I will post an edited summary.

21 comments :

Hermione said...

After a spanking I feel very mellow and submissive, and I'm very eager to comply with whatever requests my husband makes.

Daisychain said...

Oh, yes, definitely... I am far less likely to do anything wrong just after a spanking; not least because my darling husband proved early on that the fact my bottom is all shades of red known to man, will not create any sympathy in him and he will start over if I do!!!!!!
I am usually VERY compliant and amenable and very keen to obey to prove I don't need further correction! xxx

ronnie said...

Oh yes, I'm very compliant after my spanking. Whatever is requested I'm more than happy to oblige.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Melody said...

LOL! Am I the only "pouter" among spanked wives? I am submissive and very obedient and respectful after, but I tend to pout a bit. I don't know if this is my stubborn pride, or what, but I'm a little miffed after a good spanking. Master could care less...so if I annoy Him with my pity-party for too long, He will, as Daisychain commented, "start over", and with renewed enthusiasm and energy :)
I think they enjoy tanning our butts..sympathy? What sympathy? Roflmao

sixofthebest said...

I believe satisfied contentment by both mutual parties, seems to be in order, after a spanking is given.

Kitty said...

Yes, a spanking makes me feel VERY submissive to Daddy:)!

Kitty

Poppy said...

100% true for me. Afterwards I am not just compliant but also observant, I just want to please him and will look for ways to do that.
The only issue would be if I have not been spanked enough and then can be really quite difficult but he can sort that out quite quickly. ;)

Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Park said...

I'm often compliant, particularly if I feel submissive to the top, but if it's a "friendly" spanking (ie, at a party) I'll usually go right back into my pre-spanking head space and I'll be laughing and probably bantering as I always do. I might be giddy from the endorphins, however.

Anonymous said...

Yes indeedy, I am compliant, submissive, in the mood for just about anything. I'd been hesitant to try anal intercourse until my tricky boyfriend paddled the heck out of me and then started fingering me there. It was phenomenal, and has been the 8 zillion times since.
Jean Marie

Gracie said...

It depends on a lot of factors for me. Sometimes it will make me a bit more bratty, but I also do frequently feel more submissive afterwards, especially when he's spanking me regularly.

oatmeal girl said...

What my Master the sadist observes after any application of pain, be it a spanking or the slightest pinch of my nipple, is how much softer I am.

Physically softer.
More yielding.
My mouth.
My belly.
All resistant tension is gone.
Everything is soft.

He loves it.

Duality said...

It probably depends on the spanking I give. If its light, she will be more playful then submissive. If its medium she will be very submissive and pliable. And if its a hard one it tends to leave us both emotionally drained. So she probably is more submissive under that category, I'm just usually not in a head space to do anything with it.

Michael M said...

Hi
After any sort of spanking I am a very compliant person and am willing to do anything my wife suggests. My head is cleared of problems for a few hours and all is well with the world.
Michael M

Respecting Mistress said...

Definitely. This is when I'm at my most submissive, very contrite, very obedient and I feel like the weight of the world has been lifted from my shoulders.....

Anonymous said...

When I unbend, and my bottom untightens, I do anything I am told, rather than have to bend over again for further spanking on my oh so tender backside, which will happen if I don't comply. All my three apertures are available to D; two I like, but one not so keen, but it's there if he wants it .S

Scunge said...

Well after processing for a while,it depends mostly I'm happier but sometimes I find I'm more resentful,then instead of spanking more we talk.

poured out said...

I have never been spanked to induce compliance to Sir. My spankings are just part of our play, to which I am always very willingly compliant!

crankyspanker.com said...

Hi

You would think so but I think that it depends on the spanking. A dozen with a riding crop and I was very compliant. Just for the record I always enjoy reading the comments even if I have nothing to add.

Emanuele

Molly said...

This is a really interesting question and one I have spent a while thinking about today and even asked my Dom what his view was. He also said he would need to think about it fully to give an answer.

I would say that after a spanking I am much calmer in myself and my attitude and so this also makes me more docile and probably more compliant. If the spanking has been intense and pushed me into that really floaty space though I think my compliance is probably stronger but my ability to physically act can be impaired as at those times it can be necessary for me to crash out and recover myself....he is well aware of this 'place' I can get into though and would not expect me to be able to respond appropriately when I am like that. He knows I need a cuddle...LOL

Mollyxxx

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

It seems to depend a lot on how the spanker acts and what they say during the spanking. There have been times when someone has clicked all my psychological buttons and it has been difficult returning to independent thinking, after a spanking.

Prefectdt

kiwigirliegirl said...

hell yes, extremely compliant, respectful, happy content and happy to do anything. We tend to cuddle afterwards and he makes sure Im ok and then anything can happen. I love those feelings afterwards.

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