What one aspect of adult spanking do you find most appealing and why?
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The closeness that I feel to My Fine Lady that can not be equaled in any other fashion. It just doesn't get any better.
Besides spanking a naughty woman's bare bottom, which for me is the most important part. The other enjoyable aspect, is the way she is dressed. Seeing her in a 'pair of directoire knickers, which when pulled down, her naked rear end is encased in garter-belt and stockings.
I love knowing that I won't scare him away if I get in a argumentative or impatient (i.e. bitchy) mood like I have other people in my life. It doesn't turn into a huge argument like in my other relationships. He will just tell me to bend over and spank me to correct my behavior.
There are so many moments, but if I have to be honest with myself, I think it is that moment that I am pulled over his lap - that split second where I realise that under his control. There is nothing else I can do or say, that will ever reduce that moment.
It's all sexual for me, baby. Aside from all the trappings and set-up, I love the actual spanking. The way it feels and the way my body responds to a good whacking. I love coming from being spanked. I love the whole thing!
Plain and simple, it's the sensation. My bottom is every bit as sensitive to touch as any of my other parts. Soft gentle touch, hard harsh touch, it all does it for me. A big warm solid hand (or any other part for that matter) & the smooth hot skin of my bottom, they were made for each other, Baybee!
This is a deceptively simple question, and not easily answered. I think that the best thing about it is actually realizing my deepest desire and having my fantasies come to life. It is the time when the part of me that I must keep hidden from the rest of the world is set free. I feel safe and secure sharing my secret self with the man who spanks and loves me.
Guiltily I have to admit it is the high of subspace and/or the endorphin rush. Oh well, it is better than being a Heroine addict I suppose.
Prefectdt
I think the very best part is the emotional connection that spanking creates between us.
I'll parrot some of the others and say that my favorite part of spanking is the spanking itself. The physical sensations, hormonal surges, and emotional gratification all form one inseparable unit.
There isn't just one thing I can pick. The power exchange is high on the list though. The feeling of someone else being in charge, being able to submit, allowing me to get that emotional release. To echo what @sara wrote, the connection I feel with the spanker is also important.
For me it is the impact, the tingle, the sting I just love that feeling, and the longer it lasts the better...
I agree with Hermione on the deceptively simple question...
I enjoy the anticipation, trepidation of an imminent spanking; I love the endorphin/adreline rush during a spanking, although I may not like self same spanking very much; I adore the knowing I am completely loved that comes afterwards.
Taking a fully grown woman and reducing her to the level of a naughty little girl,in her own mind!
It is the quick simple communication, the message that he is in control, in charge and I need to remember that.
The red handprints. Also the cries. Also the ease of access to the girls cunt.
Choose one? How could I possibly choose one? Absolutely impossible. Control, pain, the closeness, the sexy sex afterward. These questions are getting too hard. I think I need to start eating elsewhere at the weekend!
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Emily
Arousal and emotional connection. The first happens often. The second more rare but it geometrically increases the satisfaction.
The closeness it brings. If it doesn't achieve some sort of amazing mutual connection/feeling then it wasn't worth it to me. I want to feel closer to the spanker after the spanking ends.
The role reversal! I am the bossier person normally so having him get the upper hand, literally, is sexy and fun-- for both of us.
Reconnecting with each other in a most sexual way.
The steamy, hot sex afterward. Although I enjoy sex without spanking, it is incomparable after a nice bottom roasting.
Of course, this simplifies things quite a lot. I'm cutting out the anticipation, the relinquishing of control, the sensations, and skipping right to the end. But if it didn't turn me on then I wouldn't do any of it.
What a wonderful question, Bonnie. While there is a disciplinary element to our relationship, a big part of it, one of my favorite aspects of spanking Season is the sexiness and sensualness of our encounters. There is so much more involved - control, submission, emotions, psychology, to name a few - but a major part of spanking for us is the eroticism.
Laying across his lap, feeling his dominance. The vaguely sore bottom that reminds me of our connection when we're apart.
I'd say for me it's the closeness and the reconnecting that spanking brings.
Love,
Ronnie
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We agree with Emily that it simply cannot be broken down, much less reduced to just one primary aspect. From the anticipation before hand to the pillow talk after make-up sex following, LOVE it ALL!
Jean Marie & Keiter
Hard to say. There's an appeal to all aspects. For me, I guess i go with the feeling of control, of taking charge of a naughty lady and turning her over my knee for a well-deserved bottom warming. Also knowing that she trusts me enough to do this.
The confirmation that I am loved; that I am answerable to him; that I must submit; that I must obey; that he finds me sexy; that he WANTS to help me communicate more effectively... (oooh, but, mostly, that deep, determined, no-nonsense, sexy voice that conveys all these things....) xxxxxxxxx
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