Saturday, April 09, 2011

MBS Spanko Brunch #273

Hello again, my dear friends. Our topic this week was inspired by my beloved husband, Randy. There a point in every spanking session when he decides that he is done spanking over fabric and wants to make direct contact with my bare skin. He could at that point pull my panties down, but if I am laying across his lap, I must get up in order to accomplish this feat. More often than not, he chooses a second option.

Have you or your partner experienced the wedgie spanking? If so, is it a part of your regular routine? How do the spanker and spankee feel about this technique? If you don't use it, is it something you would consider in the future?

If you would like to participate in our conversation (and I hope you will), please enter your thoughts in the form of a comment below. Once everyone has spoken, I will post and edited summary.

23 comments :

CurtisG said...

Do it often in some party situations where there's a limitation on time, spanking are mostly for fun and you can get at the area needing attention easily. But don't do it in a way that makes my partner uncomfortable.

Raven Red said...

I have never experienced a wedgie spanking. Uncle Nick is quite adament that all will be bared with everything removed. I think he realises that although irrational, I do experience the total removal of knickers as the last defense being removed.

Respecting Mistress said...

Mistress normally punishes my naked bottom and rarely across her knee. however, there have been some occassions where I've been wearing some silky panties we bought from 'Panties For Men' and rather than pull them down during a paddling, Mistress has yanked them up tight between my cheeks. In all honesty, I prefer the intimate moment of Mistress peeling my panties down rather than giving me a wedgie!

Ms Scarlett said...

Never experienced a wedgie spanking, I normally add panties to my outfits for my spankings to have to remove them. Master has a no panty rule as my standard ... will experiment I am sure....when I spank my slave I usually have a brae bottom already... think this will defintely be used on slave ... soon! Think it could be rather uncomfortable and another quick reminder of his place !

CedenoGems said...

Ha! He doesn't do that very much but it has happened. I have to say I don't really like it. It's not that it's uncomfortable exactly, it's more that my balloon was popped thinking I got off getting a bare spanking. He finds it highly clever when I ask if I can leave my panties on to say sure and then pull them up to spank me bare! Meanie!

Emily Winters said...

Have to agree with Raven and Ms Scarlett...we are a no knickers allowed sort of household! However...there have been times when they are donned simply for the pleasure of removing them...and fairly quickly.
So, I have never had a wedgie spanking, per se...but...this does bring back a certain memory of having my thong yanked up from the back of my jeans, by an irritated man who could not believe I was wearing either item of clothing!
Oh and by the way..may I have a slice of that crumb cake?
Emily

Hermione said...

I've never experienced one because I usually start out bare, but you've given me an idea for some interesting variety.

I did see it done once on TV, in an episode of the now defunct program, Kink. A dominatrix was showing her newbie pupil how to administer a flogging, and the male submissive wore briefs to preserve his modesty for the television camera. But the garment was pulled up high to expose as much of each cheek as possible.

Emanuele Lombardi said...

I can't say that I have ever done that. I have seen it and it looks as effective as it does leave the butt bare. I would have to say though there is something about lowering that last layer of protection that really appeals to me personally.

Emanuele

Uncle Nick said...

Yeah, I once spanked a girl who was wearing a thong and when I tried to pull it down she screamed blue murder even though it gave her no protection at all. When I pointed this lack of protection to her she agreed with alacrity that this was the case. Then I said that since they gave her no protection they might as well come down - which they did.

You should have heard her yell!

Michelle Carlyle said...

No wedgies for me. If you're gonna spank me, do it right! Of course, my Hubby is large enough to lift me up and drag the panties down. Okay, now I'm horny. If you will excuse me...

Tender Bottomed Girl said...

Never had a wedgie spanking. G believes in bare bottom spankings and any panties I'm wearing are quickly discarded.

Annapurna said...

Hi Bonnie,

I start bare, stay bare, and end bare. There's no wedgie issue for me!

Lizzie said...

Done right, I can enjoy a wedgie spanking (there are, unfortunately, ways that this can be done "wrong", at least to my thinking). I wouldn't go so far as to say that I prefer it, but there are certainly times when it works well or is nice for variety.

In a public play situation, such as at parties, this can be particularly effective at keeping away the creepers (who only want to see my naughty bits) while keeping up the intensity of the scene. I like a Top who is thoughtful that way.

AboutSpankings said...

This is pretty common at spanking parties... and we've both experienced it there (from different sides of the wedgie, lol). It allows for a bare bottom feel while still providing some modesty. Here at home though, it's pretty rare. The pulling down of the panties is a delicious moment that we both enjoy too much to skip. The exception is the playful wedgie, done before panties do come off. They do always come off too!

Neither one of us is a fan of a "thong spanking" though... and the wedgie is closer than a kissing cousin to the thong... so, yep... pretty rare outside of a party.

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This is She. said...

I have experienced the wedgie spanking, and I love it! It's not necessarily a 'regular' thing. It really just depends on him and the situation.

OnHerKnee said...

As both spanker and spankee I would have to say we've gotten away from what was the traditional if not ritualistic feature of the over clothing/over panties or undies aspect of warm-up/build-up to the more advanced or perhaps better called lazy method where it's more of a "Yeah, yeah we both know how it's going to go so getem' to the floor before you climb over" methods, and then just jump into the regular measured ration of fondle or warm-up to suit the occaision.

Perhaps a return to the more formal "You'll have more to remember" methods could offer some variety. We'll have to consider it...

But I think that might better be suited to pre-planed spankings and might not be well suited to the more often... We're alone, lets get you ass hot and sore" events.

The idea of a wedgie spanking could be completely different in method and meaningfulness depending on what gender is laying overwhat gender as well.

Pink said...

I love the wedgie spanking. I love it when he uses my panties as a handle to maneuver me around his lap. It's embarrassing. It's uncomfortable. And nothing makes me want to take my panties down more.

Rich Person said...

As a spanker, I agree that it makes a good handle. I'm surprised that no one has commented on how it might stimulate the spankee (in addition to the spanking). I would have thought that that would be worth at least an extra wiggle.

Dr. Ken said...

I like to start a spanking over a woman's clothing, then the skirt goes up or the jeans go down and I warm the seat of her panties for a while before proceeding to bare bottom (the "real spanking").

During the panty -spanking portion, I employ a technique that i guess we can call the "half-wedgie". Elastic being the wonderful thing that it is, , I will take the left leg band and pull that up exposing the left cheek. I'll apply some brisk spanks to the exposed area, do some soothing rubbing, spank some more, and then make a big deal out of putting the leg band back down into it's proper position, smoothing the fabric, etc. Then I'll take the right leg band , pull it up, and repeat the process on the other side.

I'll give her bottom a few swats that way, and then I'll go for the "full wedgie".

For what it's worth, no lady has complained yet!

Michael said...

Yes, I have used the wedgie for spanking naughty and not so naughty girls. With Season I will use different methods depending on the situation. Sometimes start over panties and then either remove them or give her that wedgie. Other times start on the bare. I like to be spontaneous in how, why and when I spank her so I mix things up so Season never knows what to expect. Makes a wonderful experience so much more special.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

With the right style of panties, the cheeks are exposed, so no wedgie is needed. Bacall normally has on panties for her spankings. I spank the lower cheeka. Near the end, I take them off.

Daisychain said...

YUK!!! I would hate that!!!
I wear thongs all the time and they are soooo comfy! But, the thought of pulling them up tight between the cheeks, well, it would detract from the spanking, as it would feel like a cheese wire!!!! NO THANKS!
Having said that, it is unlikely to happen, as Davey never starts a spanking until I am naked.... lol Great topic though, and loved all the different answers! xxx

Elfy said...

I've had it done, but it's not particularly comfortable. The spanking hurts enough without the uncomfortable feeling of having your panties wedged in between your cheeks. I'd rather be totally bare.

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