I hope everyone is enjoying this holiday season. If not, just hang on because it's almost over!
Our question today involves words. Language is but one of the ways spanker and spankee communicate, but it's a very important one.
What words or phrases do you find most effective for a spanker to say upon finishing of a spanking? Do these words complete the discipline, introduce a new phase of play, offer soothing reassurance, seal the reconnection, or have some other beneficial effect? Spankees, is there anything you wish your partner would say in this situation?
As usual, everyone is welcome to join our brunch conversation. All you need to do is enter your response in the form of a comment below. Once everyone has had their turn, I will post an edited summary.
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Hmmm... my Master usually says "You have had enough." I don't necessarily always agree with him. But it is his way of letting me know that it is winding down, that he is ultimately in control of this thing.
What I wish he would say? I think it would be awesome to hear some kind of words about what he gains from hurting me, that he enjoyed himself?
We're just starting to explore spanking as a part of our relationship and found your blog. Love it.
My man has recently followed his standard order of "come here" (to be held and caressed afterwards) with words about how I should remember the feeling of the spanking for the next few days. He recently said "you will remember this, do you understand?" and I just melted into a small puddle! This pretty much ensures it will have a lasting effect not just on my physically but in my mind as well. I'm surprised at how much of an impact it has.
My husband usually signals the end of a spanking by saying, "We're done" or "You've had enough" and follows it with the reason why. Usually it's something to do with the colour of my bottom, and it always makes me laugh. His latest concluding remark was that I was as red as Rudolph's nose.
I like the fact that he is in charge, and makes the decision of when to stop. Ron isn't a talkative person by nature, so always it pleases me when he uses words and not actions to signal the end. When he adds a description of what he will do next time, I am over the moon.
How about, "And that is just the end of the warm up..." LOL!!!!
Sometimes, he gets it spot on...other times, he seems to think its been harsh when it really hasn't, but I could never ask for more....so I just wait a short time and then start bratting again....
When it has been for discipline though, as he stops he gently runs his fingers over my very sore bottom, says, lay still, and he goes off to get cold compresses to sooth my burning ass.... when he sees steam rising from the icy cold cloths, he knows he set my tail alight!!! I love the fact that those punishing hands suddenly become tender and gentle...its kinda sexy...though, sex is off limits after punishment, which is a bit of a crock.... lol xxxxxxxxxx
Merry Christmas, to my dear friends, Bonnie and Randy!!!!!! xxxxxxxxx
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