Sunday, July 22, 2007

MBS Spanko Brunch #79

Welcome back to another MBS spanko brunch! I think everyone who reads this blog regularly has a pretty good idea about my thoughts about this favorite pastime of ours. Today, I would like to explore our feelings through a particularly interesting lens.

Our friend Greenwoman says "Spanking is a healing, nurturing thing to share." Do you agree?

Special thanks go to LynLass who suggested this week's topic.

If you would like to add your unique perspective to today's brunch, I encourage you to leave a comment below, send me an e-mail, or post a response on your own blog. Once everyone has provided their contributions, I will publish a summary of our discussion.


Dave said...

Without a doubt it's a wonderful, intimate, intoxicatingly hot sexy thing to share. Even just talking about spanking with someone is an incredibly liberating feeling.

Though when you do not have someone to share your spankosexual feelings with, it can be a real downer!

Paul said...

Absolutely, if it wasn't a caring thing to share, it would be abuse.
No one who loves their partner abuses them.
Spanking is the most erotic and healing foreplay I can think of. Even when Mel had earned a punishment, it healed a possible rift between us.
We never went to bed as enemies always as lovers.
There may be a better way to cement a relationship, if there is, I don't know it.
Warm hugs,

Anonymous said...

Spanking certainly can be a healing, nurturing thing to share. It can be many different things. It can be silly and playful... sexy and erotic... caring and motivating. It could even be mean and scary. Many-many possibilities. Spanking is what the people doing it, make it.

~Todd & Suzy

Abby said...

This subject is so close to my heart that I am having a hard time putting my answer into words. I keep starting and restarting. There are some days that I really truly need a spanking from the man I love. Not just light play, not the kind that leaves me giddy and giggling, but the kind that puts me to tears and takes me to that place of giving up and letting go. Afterwards, as I stand up, he opens his arms and I let myself be embraced, and all I can say is, "Thank you." That anyone is willing take all the responsibility quite literally into his own hands and turn it into a way of releasing the pain from my own heart, amazes me. It is healing. It is nurturing. It is love.

mthc said...

I think it's like what Todd and Suzy say. For us it's silly and and erotic.
There are so many possibilities!!

P.S. Bonnie thanks for the birthday wishes..It was a great birthday indeed!!

Crystal said...

Definitly I have to echo all of the above. It's a great way to mend relationships, enforce discipline and bring passion to your life. But it truly sucks when your partner refuses to indulge or he/she's not's SOOO fusterating! I love it...there is no better way to bind 2 people together cause it takes a lot of trust in the spanko from the spankee that he/she won't hurt him/her.

Bonnie said...

Greenwoman possess a practical wisdom I greatly admire. This quote, which she used to describe how her lover feels toward her, might seem contradictory to most of the world. But amid the beauty of her luscious prose, it could not sound more right.

While I agree that the act of spanking is not intrinsically positive, for those of us with a passion for that special glow, a good spanking can be an amazing elixir. Is it healing and nurturing for me? Yes, absolutely, and so much more. A spanking calms my nerves, helps me relax, restores emotional balance, re-connects me with Randy, gives me energy, rebuilds my motivation, energizes my libido, opens lines of communications, makes me feel sexy, and improves my mood. These benefits can last for hours or even days afterward.

As I often say, a sore bottom is a small price to pay.

Ofia said...

A thousand times yes. It's amazing. I must say that Abby and Bonnie together have said all the important things, and well. I have to agree with Abby, this is hard to put into words, and do any justice at explaining how it makes me feel.

I think that a spanking is an illustration of love. After he spanks me I feel loved. I feel his love encompassing me, protecting me, holding me, making me happier. A sore bottom is a reminder of these feelings.

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