I thought it might be fun to dive into the mailbag once again. Here are some of your e-mails along with my responses. Please note that in some cases, I have paraphrased longer questions for the sake of brevity.
Question: My husband spanks too hard. The pain is excruciating and I hurt for days afterward. I like the idea of spankings, but the reality is just a bit much right now. What should I do?
Answer: Talk to him. Make sure he knows that he is going beyond your limits. Ask him if will consider backing off a little. Just because you're in a submissive role doesn't mean that you have to be a doormat. Have a safeword and use it if necessary. Your needs must be considered as well. As a dominant, he has a responsibility to look out for your best interests. If your husband is unwilling to do this, perhaps spanking play is not a good idea.
Question: Do you have any tattoos?
Answer: Nope. Sorry. No ink here.
Question: Will you look at my blog and give me some ideas as to how I might improve it?
Answer: Sure. I haven't a lot of time to spend on this sort of activity, but I'm glad to share some intial impressions. I'm far from an expert on Web page design, but I have plenty of opinions. :)
Question: If I send you some panties, will you model them for me?
Answer: In all honesty, there's only one man who gets to watch me parade around in my underwear (and fortunately, he seems to like it).
Question: Do you spank?
Answer: No.
Question: Do you think that women who are into spanking are more likely to go for anal sex too?
Answer: I've never seen a study on this topic (just imagine trying to obtain a grant!), but I imagine that might be the case. We spankos tend to be a little more adventurous in the bedroom and we're certainly very aware that our bottom is an erogenous zone. So my guess would be yes.
Question: Have you had a butt lift?
Answer: Only by Randy when he wants a better angle to spank it!
Question: Do you think naughty boys should be paddled?
Answer: If they're adults and they like it, absolutely.
I couldn't make up this stuff!
Keywords: spanking, My Bottom Smarts, blogging
9 comments :
Question: Have you had a butt lift?
Answer: Only by Randy when he wants a better angle to spank it!
Good answer! Good answer!!
bella
(who found some additional letters for her name)
Hi Bonnie - Diane here. I have a question for you! Have you ever attended one of those Shadowlane spanking gatherings? Came across their announcement for a Brat Pack Party - this month in Vegas. They reserve a whole floor of the hotel for attendees. They have vendors, dancing and dinners - and if you so chose - play. always in private. The attendees are even encouraged to have suite parties and invite other attendees. Sounds wild - the idea of a whole group of spankos in one place - for mutual interaction. I'm not there yet - hmmm, maybe longer. It's actually quite well managed and organized, from what I've read. They have some rules and suggestions, too. Hubby thinks it's a grand idea! Maybe next year! LOL
Diane: Shadow Lane parties are fantastic. :) They're fun, classy and relaxed, kind of like Tony and Eve themselves.
My husband and I are going this month -- it'll be my 6th. If you have any questions I could answer, let me know!
Great answers, Bonnie!!!
*hugs*
Tigger
Bonnie, as usual, love your answers.
Hugs,
Paul.
Bonnie-
Love your answers. Why do they keep asking you if you spank? With husbands as wonderful as ours why would we do the work!
Love, Cassie
Bella - Thanks. You're welcome here under any name!
Diane - No, but some of our regular readers have...
Mija - Thank you, Mija. Those parties always sound like fun.
Tigger Too - Thanks.
Paul - Thanks. Just when I think I've answered every possible question, I get a whole crop of new ones.
Cassie - I dunno. I think they're probably newbies who have yet to master some of the roles and distinctions the rest of us take for granted.
Todd and Suzy - You know, I haven't seen that yet. Nor have I been asked to punish Elvis' alien love child.
Chris - Please hijack away. Your expertise is much appreciated. I look forward to reading your reports (and Mija's too!). Thanks.
LOL Your questions and answers are better than Letterman's... probably 'cause yours are real! xox
snow
Nor have I been asked to punish Elvis' alien love child
...yet.
bella
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