Bonnie's Mailbag

As I've mentioned before, many of you good readers take the time to send me e-mail. I truly appreciate all of your encouragement, praise, thoughts, and opinions. I particularly value your constructive suggestions. Many of the features you see here are in some fashion inspired by reader feedback.

I wanted to take a few minutes tonight to share some of your letters. The questions and comments below are paraphrased, but fairly representative.

Comment: I love the way your butt looks!

Response: Thank you. This is the number one e-mail topic. No kidding. I have no problem at all with guys (or women!) admiring my bottom. If I did, it wouldn't be out there. I hope these good folks will take a few minutes to check out my writing as well.

Question: Do you write your stories primarily for women?

Question: Not consciously. My stories naturally reflect my own perspective, which happens to be female and submissive. I would like to think that there is something here to appeal to spankos of either gender.

Question: Can you explain about sub-space?

Response: Great suggestion! I'll be posting a Spanking 101 article on that subject soon.

Comment: You and Randy seem ideally matched.

Response: We are indeed a good fit for one another. That's not to say that we don't have disagreements like any other couple. We can each be stubborn and hard-headed in our own ways. Over the years, though, we managed to settle some issues permanently and develop the tools to settle others as they arise. At the end of the day, we both know that we're far better together than apart. That knowledge motivates us to keep working at our relationship.

Comment: You should be a writer.

Response: (laughing) I think so too. I've made my living writing in one form or another for most of my adult life. Unfortunately, none of my professional work is nearly as much fun as what you read here.

Question: When will you post pictures of your bare ass?

Response: I created this blog primarily as an outlet for my writing. I won't categorically rule out bare skin, but it's not currently in my plans.

Comment: I love the name!

Response: Yeah, I'm fond of it too. My Bottom Smarts is a triple entendre.

Comment: I appreciate your honesty and candor.

Response: Thank you. In recounting our real life adventures, I try to share as many details as I can remember. If I can assist someone who is just starting out, I certainly want to do so. When telling the story, I often focus upon the emotional and cerebral aspects as much as the physical. The most important sex organ is truly the one we all share - the mind. It reminds me of the old saying that a man must get in my mind before he can get in my pants.

Question: I'm confused about all of the labels and acronyms like D/s, M/s, TPE, B&D, S&M, DD, and so forth. Can you talk about that?

Response: Sure. Watch for a future Spanking 101 installment. In the meantime, I wouldn't get too hung up on labels. If an activity works well for you and your partner, it doesn't much matter what it's called.

Question: May I spank you?

Response: Randy is the only spanker I require.

I guess that's enough for tonight. If you have comments or suggestions, please feel free to add your voice. If you want a response, allow me a day or two to get back to you.

I am genuinely interested in your thoughts, especially any suggestions for improving My Bottom Smarts. My goal is to create a site that is worth visiting every day.

Until we talk next time, happy spankings!

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