Welcome back, my friends. Please find a seat anywhere you like and feel free to join in the conversation. This week, we have one simple question whose answer should be valuable for all of us.
What do you and your partner do to keep alive your interest in spanking?
We would love to hear what you have to say. Just enter a comment below and once everyone has had a chance, I will post an edited summary for all to read.
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Simple really. We keep breathing.....
Hahahaha, love to you and everyone, xxx
We do alot of things to keep our interest alive. We attend spanking parties, We do videos for our blogs, We also practice domestic discipline and we always try to find time to play somehow. I like Daisys answer we pretty much don't have to do more then be alive ourselves since it is so much a part of who we are.
Our interest in spanking is hard-wired into each of the two of us, a strong submissive interest in me and a wonderfully dominant interest in my lover. It is who we are. It is this reality that keeps our vibrant sex life so full and fun.
Warmly,
Jean Marie
We spend a good deal of our free time together doing different spanking related things. Talking to friends, going to parties, reading and writing stories, posting on our own blog... reading and commenting on other blogs.
Probably the most important thing we do to keep our spanking interest alive though... is just *spending time together*. We're both interested in spanking (it's one of the things that brought us together). So just being together keeps that spark burning. Does help to do 'spanko related' things though.
:)
~Todd & Suzy
An odd question, in my opinion. Spanking is a fun thing to do. I do it because its fun. If it for some reason ever loses its charm, I'll just develop some other inane fetish and move on.
Its an interest, it works to sustain me. Not the other way around.
We set aside some time to indulge in it regularly, and make this a high priority in our lives. We also try to make each encounter unique in some way. The combination of implements, position and timing is never exactly the same. At other times, we often laugh and joke about spanking, and that keeps the spark alive.
Looking at everyday life from the perspective of possible spanko subjects to blog about keeps spanking on my mind a good deal of the time. Reading blogs ensures that I won't soon run out of new ideas to share with Ron and possibly try together.
I was going to post a wise-ass, but true, comment, but Daisychain beat me to it. So I will just that every day above ground spanking is on my mind.
Practice, practice, practice! Meow
For us we never get bored or go with the same routine. We both like the spankings to much.
My MASTER knows how much it gets me hot and wet. Weather it is a punishment or forplay or even just playing around, it all works for us.
He loves it just as much as I do.
This morning as we both just rolled over, I asked for a good spanking. He was very suprised and eager to start our day that way. What a great way to start your day!!!!
He probably will be raeding this later and aend his own opinion in.
Everybody have a great spanking day!!!
I don't know that we do anything to keep the spanking spark alive. We flirt and enjoy random suggestive swats. We enjoy spanking with sex. Less often, I am treated to a long, leisurely, fully erotic spanking. But we don't actively work to maintain the interest in spanking. It's more like the spanking is used as one of many ways to maintain our blissful enjoyment of each other and keep our marriage healthy, vibrant, and full of sparks.
Oh, and when I get the urge for a spanking, I just ask for one.
Frequent spanking is the key for us. When I'm aroused I want spanked. When I get spanked I get aroused. Feeling tender from being spanked arouses me....When I'm aroused I want spanked. When I get spanked I get aroused. Feeling tender from being spanked arouses me....When I'm aroused I want spanked. When I get spanked I get aroused. Feeling tender from being spanked arouses me....ad infinitum. :)
I've been interested in it since I was a child but mot spanked then. We never attended spanking parties or clubs it's just a part of our romance. I feel safe and loved with a red bottom It's erotic and fun for us not a punishment.
Spanking has been a part of our lives since we dated and still is after being married 35 years. We both love our parts. There are always playful spanks throughout the day. We started today with spanking and making love, as we do many mornings, I can feel it sitting here now and like the feeling.
We still make love almost every day and he spanks me a little or a lot daily and I love it.We are happy and sexy after 35 years together,in part, because of the spanking. Spanking and sex keep us very relaxed. There have been times when it wasn't a daily occurrence over the years for various reasons.
As in the case of the last person to post, we've been together for many years, and our interest has never flagged. She still knows how to cut those big, green eyes at me like a cat on the prowl, and we also exchange little pats, usually multiple times each day. Another of her favorites is to give me a pinch you-know-where or a thump on the nose, or make an off-color remark and then, with the foxiest naughty-girl look I've ever seen, bend over for a pop with my hand. That almost invariably leads to the long paddle and fantastic love-making before the night's over.
Anon VII
My partner already responded- she got spanked this morning when she woke up (at her request) and i just got spanked (NOT at my request)- but it was a lot of fun.....now we are just finishing some sweets before cuddling in bed and drifting off to sleep....she hopes to fall asleep before my snoring kicks in....grin
I am hoping to use this blog to help our interst stay alive. I always have interest and my husband is trying to accomodate. He mostly just likes how turned on it makes me and so therefore will go to a spanking. I would like more spankings that do not immediately lead to sex and more with a plot. I am trying to get him to spend a little time with the spankings described here. If he will I think it will really help.
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