Sunday, October 04, 2020

Why Even Bother?

I recently encountered a tweet from a blogger who calls herself The Dismay Queen. Her words perfectly capture my thoughts when we watch fetish videos.

          Bondage?
          Sure, you can tie me up whilst spanking me.

          Sex?
          Sure we can have sex after I've been spanked.

          Roleplay?
          Sure, I can take on a different persona whilst you spank me.

          How about I do those things without spanking?
          I....I'm sorry I don't understand the question.

Exactly! Why would the top go to all the trouble to tie this woman up in all those intricate knots if she doesn't even get a spanking? It seems like so much wasted effort.

I realize other people have different kinks than mine, but no spanking? No thanks.

5 comments :

morningstar said...

LOL - love this piece Bonnie

remember going to a play party and watching a Top spend over an hour tying up his submissive - took some pictures of her then took the ropes off and went to have a drink....... I thought it was a total waste of time

Roz said...

Hi Bonnie,

I'm with you, though I guess for some, bondage and other activities are their kink and spanking doesn't play a part.

Hugs
Roz

SPANKEDHORTIC II said...

I could not agree more.

Prefectdt

TheDismayQueen said...

Lol, was scrolling through and thought i recognised this!!!
Thanks for the feature, and yeah get to spanking me already?!?!

Bonnie said...

TDQ - Thank you for the inspiration. I love your blog!

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