What topics would you like to us discuss in future brunches?
Ideal topics are those where most readers can feel comfortable participating. New topics or new perspectives on old topics are also particularly welcome. Allow your creativity to run wild!
At the end of the weekend, I will post an edited summary of our conversation.
21 comments :
A question about future questions... love it!
1) Something about the impact this MBS blog has had on building a community of bloggers.
2) What are our responsibilities to the quiet readers who comprise of 99% of blog readers.
~quiet readers = nice description of lurker :) ~
# MrBBSpanker
Kurt: I would suggest 1) What was your most memorable or significant spanking/paddling and why, and then follow that up the following week sharing insights or comments on the previous "stories". So it would allow a little more interactive conversation. Maybe do this once a quarter or whenever you're pressed for a topic..lol
2) like your short story about the effect of the electric stimulation and the switch, or whatever it was. Do others do that too? ( we do..lol)
What movie star would you have been liked to spank, or be spanked by, be they in the past or present era.
For many of us, sex and spanking are closely associated. What happens when, because of injury, illness or the inevitable changes that accompany aging, sex is no longer a viable part of the equation?
How does one tell their SO that they are kinky?
How does an adult arrange a first spanking in a safe manner?
How has being a spanko changed a person's life?
How many couples here started playing spanking games and then progressed to a full DD lifestyle? And how did you make that transition?
What method of punishments do you use, apart from spanking or other corporal punishments?
Great suggestion from Joeyred51 - close to my own heart, that one
Darby x
A possible question on how your readers have had to adapt their spanking habits due to long term illness or incapacity
What should a wife wear when she is being spanked? Should she have to get her own spanking implement? Should she have to call her husband Sir while he spanks her.
I have been spanked fairly regularly throughout our marriage. I love it. My husband even spanked me before we were married.
What phrases, words or sentences are most used in a spanking session ?
D likes the five 'rights' :- " RIGHT young lady; Pull that skirt RIGHT up to your waist, please; now pull those little knickers RIGHT down to your ankles please ; and now bend RIGHT over that chair arm to offer your lovely bottom for the RIGHT royal spanking it needs ". That makes me just quiver with excitement ! S.
Yes. Panties around my ankles. My husband makes me say, "Please may I keep my panties around my ankles to keep them warm?" It is to humiliate me.
One person's opinion: Would like to see a few more questions that include people like me who do not have, as of now, a significant other or regular playmate. Would like to see questions on where it all began and how people's desires and needs developed. Would like to see what people have found enhances the experience.
Comments regarding living as a spanko with a reluctant SO/partner...
houston_switch
I have questions from time to time, but right now can not remember the ones that I thought were really good - do you accept e-mail thoughts on an on-going basis?
One that does spring to mind is this - and maybe you have covered it - how do you reignite the spanking spark when time passes and it gets put by the wayside?
I'm not sure what I've missed from being an on-again off-again blogger, but I am curious about what others think about being a dominant bottom. Not a "tell you what to do" sort of bottom, but one who can say, "That works for me" or "That doesn't." I think it's incredibly important for partners to be balanced. Even in power-play, I believe it's relevant for both partners to come from an equal place. Mr. W and I have an absolutely amazing relationship, where everything we do comes from a place of connectivity and desire to have fun with each other, even if that means that I am VERY sore the day after. I feel like there's a lot of questions out there right now about how much opinion or say the "bottom" partner is allowed to have. It's my feeling that the "bottom" has even more say than the top. It's your body, your heart, your mind. What do tops have to say about this? Are they seeking an equal partner who is the opposite side of the coin, or are they really looking to dominate? What do some of the more submissive partners have to say? Do they want more of a voice in the play they engage in? Or are they looking to be controlled? I love what Mr. W and I have, but the more I read, the more I feel we are fortunately unique. What is the power relationship between the players out there?
My Wife and I have been into spanking each other
for a good number of years. After my most recent
spanking I started to have Sciatica pain in my
right hip extending down the right leg. Could
spanking be the cause of this? It has never happen before. I wonder if anyone else has ever
had this happen. I would to hear from some of you.
I think that it has been discussed before but I would like to see it again. What are everyone's thoughts on employing professional (paid for) spankers and spankees?
Prefectdt
I like sixofthebest's suggestion, with a slight modification. Instead of a movie star, how about a fictional character -- be it from a movie, tv show, or book?
What is your favorite non-conventional implement?
If that pesky reality wasn't in the way, and money wasn't an object, where would you like to be spanked? Over the back of a bench in a public park, over a porch railing of a cottage in the woods, at the top of the Eiffel Tower?
I am just starting a blog. Suggestions always welcome.
The question I would like to hear people's answers for is -- what conversations have you had with your close friends and family about TTWD.
I always manage to work my suggestions into my Brunch responses. Some have even been used!
Post a Comment
Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.