Saturday, March 30, 2013

MBS Spanko Brunch #376

Hello again, and welcome back to our weekly gathering. Our topic for this week was suggested by our good friend Jenny. It deals with differences between fantasy spankings and reality.

Which of these do you enjoy...
  1. Imagining spanking or being spanked (fantasy)?

  2. Reading about someone being spanked (erotica)?

  3. Watching someone take a spanking (videos)?

  4. Watching someone take a spanking (in person, spanking party)?

  5. Giving or getting a spanking yourself (real life, erotic)?

  6. Giving or getting a spanking yourself (real life, discipline or punishment)?

  7. Watching yourself spank or be spanked (mirror, home video)

I think this is a question that just about everyone can answer and I hope you will. Just leave a comment containing your response below and at the end of the weekend, I will post an edited summary.


MrBBSpanker said...

I enjoy different aspects of spanking, good questions Jenny and thanks for sharing them Bonnie :)

1)Sure, I've had my fare share of fantasies! :)

2) don't read stories as much as I once did long ago

3)I have used "selected" videos as teaching tools in the past. I'm very picky about which ones though

4) haven't been to a spanking party in a very long time

5)Always giving... Yes

6)Giving. Enjoy? It depends on the situation

7) No. Been asks several times, but never made a video

Kaelah said...

I very much like Jenny's question! For me, the answer is quite easy. I enjoy all the things that have been mentioned, except for number six, since I don't do any kind of serious real life discipline and punishment.

Hobbes said...

All except for number four: we have not nor would we ever participate with others. I regularly read just two blogs [this being one] and visit two spanking fiction libraries. It is nothing less than astounding that there are over 30,000 spanking stories archived on these sites and they are accessible through fairly sophisticated Boolean search data bases. The past twenty years [since the net opened the world] have brought the Golden Age for spankophiles. And no better example than this blog to illustrate the riches available to us all. So . . . thank you Bonnie!

Katie Rob said...

Hi Bonnie :),

Yes, sure on the imagining being spanked. Reading about it/erotica- I like that too. Watching someone else take a spanking on video and in person- umm, it doesn't really interest me. Spanking party- never been to one. Getting an erotic spanking- love those! Getting a punishment spanking- don't love it during but love what it does. Watching myself be spanked- I don't really want to see that. :) So there you have it! Thanks Bonnie! Hugs!

<3 Katie

sixofthebest said...

Bonnie, like the Seven Wonder's of the World, I being the Spanker, would enjoy all the above questions. And it certainly would make my day, week or year.

chickadee said...

Absolutely love reading and imagining!

Receiving an erotic spanking - I'm quite sure that will be wonderful if/when it happens based on what a single swat does to me.

Receiving a punishment spanking - doubt I'd enjoy it but silly me is convinced it'll put me on a better path.

I can't imagine enjoying watching spanking on video, in person or in a mirror. But I've discovered a lot of things about myself lately so who knows?

Aaron Christopher said...

Hey, even I can answer these ones.

1. All the time. My personal motto is Keep Calm and Think of Spanking. It's how I get through my stressful days at work. Indeed, I can't even recall the last fantasy I had that didn't involve spanking.

2. Not only do I enjoy reading, but I enjoy writing them as well! Spanking fiction varies in quality as much as any other kind of writing, but the real good stories are very satisfying reads. My personal preferences are for stories that are actually about spanking as discipline and not so much erotic, though.

3. It's lost a bit of it's charm over the years, but it's definitely fun. I prefer still shots where I can savor the emotions of the person being spanked.

4. Not sure about this one. I'd be more inclined to do the spanking than the watching at something like this, provided my future wife is that brave.

5. Haven't had a chance to figure this one out yet, but I'm the answer will be a definitive "Yes!" If you're into sexy spanking, you pretty much have to enjoy it.

6. Same as above. Not sure I'd enjoy actually disciplining my partner, though. Making up afterwards sure, but I can't imagine it's fun for anyone to really have to discipline someone they love. I do think I'd enjoy getting spanked as punishment though. I have lots of pent up guilt from over the years and getting really punished would give me an outlet to let some of that go.

7. Ha, never thought about this. Brilliant idea, I'll have to keep it in mind. After all, my sexy hands would be great to watch in the mirror.

Hermione said...

I enjoy:
1. Imagining I am being spanked,
2. Reading about someone being spanked, and
5. Getting an erotic spanking.

I'm not too interested in watching videos of spankings, have never seen an adult spanked in real life or at a party, we don't do punishment, and I would hate seeing myself in a mirror or in a video.

CurtisG said...

Definitely 1 and 2. Like some videos. Don't like those that portray real pain and deep marks. I have gone to several spanking parties and annually host one in my house. Whether the public play is erotic or arousing really depends on the type of play. like both giving and getting if it's for fun, play, erotic or sexual and is via the hand OTK on a couch or bed. Have no interest whatsoever in 6. Find mirrors very erotic.

Fred Bloggs said...

5 is top of my list but all the others have featured at some point.

bob said...

definitely 1,2 I like fantasies and reading spanking stories, sometimes a good video there are not many out there 5 giving of course and never thought of 7 but would like to give it a try.


Anonymous said...

I do believe I like all of them :)

Make Mine Red

Anonymous said...

I most enjoy 1, 2, 5 and 6. I looove reading stories with spanking in them so if I had to pick which one I enjoy the most it'd have to be 2.

<3 Lily

Anonymous said...

Good questions Bonnie.
1 I can't imagine thinking of spanking if I had no one to spank me.
2 Love reading spanking stories on the erotic side.
3 Don't care for spanking videos
4 Wouldn't mind watching a spanking never been to a spanking party
5 Love getting spankings
6 never had discipline but would accept it.
7 Have asked my wife to film her spanking me so I could see what she sees but she won't.

Anonymous said...

Still buzzing from 5, 6, and 7 happening a couple hours ago... ;)

abby williams said...

I hate to be that person who doesn't actually answer the question, but since I'm an open book and I not only like all of these things, I also add to the media out there, I will address this as what I want my blog to be. Even there, I'm torn, because as much as I just want to write about my fantasies and experiences, I also love posting a pic or two. I guess if I were to choose, I'd say I want people who are interested in the second choice, reading about people receiving spankings, to stop by, but those people also have to be OK with an occasional bare bottom pic of a regular woman who just loves spanking. This is a really interesting brunch for me to read, because it helps me figure out what I want to offer to the community. Hopefully what I offer comes down to some good sexy spanking stories as well as just being someone who, after a long time, is finally comfortable with her fetish, her body, herself.

Dr. Ken said...

Well, I enjoy thinking about spanking someone, reading about it, and watching someone get spanked in video or real life or at a party all to a certain extent. But my absolute favorite is 5, giving a spanking myself. I enjoy 6 somewhat--not really into punishment or discipline spankings, unless they're more "funishment.

Number 7--watching myself spank someone in a mirror is fun for about 1 swat. I'd rather be actually looking at the person I'm spanking so there's no chance of the swat landing in the wrong place. And I've never done a video.

Lea said...

Most often, 5 or 6. I almost always want to be spanked. Lol. But I've found there are some things that are best left to fantasy because the reality has no chance of holding up to it if actually played out.

Roz said...

I enjoy imagining being spanked, reading about someone being spanked and receiving an erotic spanking (I don't like punishment spankings). I've never seen an adult spanked, or been to a spanking party and would not want to see myself being spanked.


ronnie said...

I enjoy...

1. Imagining being spanked.
2. Reading stories about someone being spanked.
5. Getting an erotic spanking.
6. Getting spanked (real life discipline)

I've seen a few spanking videos but didn't enjoy them, not for me.
Never seen a person get a spanking in real like. Though I think I'd like to attend a party.
Have watched myself being spanked on a video. Not a good copy. Wished we'd kept it.



All of the answers except 5 and 6 which I would rather be "Giving or getting a spanking yourself (for fun and/or endorphins high)"


Anonymous said...

I have to admit that I enjoy all seven on the list. If I have to pick the ones I prefer, it will be receiving a spanking. I like to give, but would pick the bottom side of the paddle unless I was too sore and needed a rest.

Kia Cera said...

7: No thank you. My hair distresses me enough when upright. I can only imagine the trauma if I saw what would happen to it during a spanking!

5 & 6: I think I would like either of these. Though most of my fantasies are around disciplinary rather than erotic spankings, I imagine my preferences may be somewhat different in reality.

4. I'd need to get a lot braver before going to a party. The idea intrigues me, but since it took several years just to work up to commenting, I don't believe this will happen anytime soon.

1, 2 & 3: Videos (and pictures) have interested me on occasion, but given the choice I prefer stories every time. When first discovering the internet spanking world, I found the written pieces much more approachable. They are still my favorite way of exploring this fascination, and there's definitely a link between reading and fantasizing. While I'd like to find someone to explore 5&6 with eventually, this is plenty to keep me occupied in the meantime.

Loki_Darksong said...

Which of these do you enjoy...
1) Imagining spanking or being spanked (fantasy)?
I do both of these. At work, to pass the time, I imagine the types of spankings and implements to use on a few of my female coworkers, as well as speculating on how each would react during a spanking.

I also spend time imagining the various play, both giving and getting, with my wife. Sometimes we are even able to pull it off.

2) Reading about someone being spanked (erotica)?

I have a very extensive library of spanking novels, erotica and fanfiction. I do write stories myself from time to time.

3) Watching someone take a spanking (videos)?
Oh Yes! I am a member of Spankingtube and several other sites that have videos, both past and current. Ironically, I own only a small number of dvds involving spanking. Never had the time to divert money towards buying some.

4) Watching someone take a spanking (in person, spanking party)?
Many times, with the last one just this past Saturday night.

5) Giving or getting a spanking yourself (real life, erotic)?
Not as often as I would like, but I do both give and get spankings.

6) Giving or getting a spanking yourself (real life, discipline or punishment)?
This one is a little tricky. I have only on maybe two occasions given my wife a punishment type spanking. For myself, I have always been curious about receiving one.
Discipline sessions, in my definition, would involve training in the use of or the enduring of various implements.I still have yet to set that up between myself and my wife.

7) Watching yourself spank or be spanked (mirror, home video)
Yes! Both giving and getting. Lady Darksong and I own a couple of clipstores where we have placed those videos for sale hoping to at least profit from what we like to do. With the lack of money out there, one has to do what one has to do.

Marie Haynes said...

Certainly - number five. I like best receiving a spanking, although, I must say that WRITING about spankings is also very pleasurable.

Respecting Mistress said...

1. I've always imagined, fantasised about, being on the receiving end of corporal punishment. My earlier recollections go back to when I was ten. I'm still fascinated by the subject some 40-odd years later.

2. I used to read a lot about the subject - fiction or fact - but not so much these days unless it's people discussing real life DD matters.

3. I do find it interesting seeing someone caned in a domestic setting. I find myself empathising with their suffering even though it's a situation they happily put themselves in.

4. As above. I've been to clubs/parties and it's fascinating to watch the dynamic between spanker and spankee.

5. Not so much interesting in erotic spanking now.

6. I wouldn't say it's something I enjoy rather than need. Discipline is part of our relationship and maintaining discipline requires corrective methods.

7. It's not something we've done but I would like to study just how Mistress sees me reacting during a punishment session. it might move me to exhibit more self control in future.

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