Do you or your partner enhance your spanking experiences by adding tactile sensations such as silk, rubber, ice, metal, fur, or leather? If so, how do these sensations alter the spankee's perception of the session? If not, would you consider trying any of these techniques in the future?
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Absolutely yes! There's so much more to spanking then discipline or punishment. Including sensual or erotic sensation to a non-disciplinary spanking can elicit a powerful connection.
MrBBSpanker
Do tongues count? If so, then yes.
If hand lotion counts . . . yes. Turns the pain to pleasure in a hurry! Highly recommended.
It is all about the tactile...yes!! I have a little wheelie thingy...it is heavenly!
abby
We haven't yet, but I'm open to try just about anything :)
Oh ice! Yes :P. I forget about the spanking instantly.
When we played CP games we used to spend evenings both dressed in PVC and/or rubber with me being stripped every hour or so for spankings/canings etc. Delightful. Now we only use CP for real discipline. The only hint of tactile sensation is presenting myself for punishment in plastic pants - which Mistress takes great delight in massaging over my bottom cheeks before slowly pulling down once I'm bent over the bench.....
I think a snow spanking would be interesting. Me sitting in the snow a while then hubby bringing me to the barn. Sounds fun maybe one day all four kids will be out at the same time lol
I love when he turns the leather paddle over and rubs the soft furry side over my bottom- it feels soft and soothing.
There is nothing to enhance the sting like a wet bottom. Even worse is a bottom fresh out of a shower. My lover uses a spray bottle to keep things wet and warm and man does it work!
Yes, we have tried a rubber strap but it was just too heavy. LOVE leather the most. We have a leather paddle with fur on the flip side, the fur feels nice :) We have silk ties for bondage, if that counts. Lotion feels nice afterwards & kind of works a bit like water if used before.
Make Mine Red
My spankings will often include implements made from different materials, be it his hand, a wooden brush and a rope flogger...the differences in texture make it a much richer experience than when the spanking involves one texture, one implement. Adding a difference in temperature is also something more intense.
Actually, I mix sensation play of the type you describe into almost all of my scenes.
I find the contrast tends to heighten the intensity of both the pain and pleasure.
And it is a nice way to fill time while allowing a brief rest.
My favorite tactile sensation is cool, smooth, bare thighs. :-)
We have used things like silk, ice etc from time to time in play spankings. I find it definitely enhances the senses which in tern intensifies the spanking itself.
We always use a combination of leather and wooden implements, and the change in texture is an important part of the total experience. I like feeling the bristle side of the hairbrush, and the rubber side of the wooden paddle.
Happy New Year, Bonnie! Have a red-bottomed year!
No, my wife won't add the extra "tactile" feelings here... Hmmm, how to incorporate them, I'm thinking... :)
Bacall has a full length mink that is wonderful to lay in front of the fireplace. It's been too long since we did that. Thanks for the reminder.
have silk blindolds, rubber ball gag, leather collar, real hand and thumb cuffs, soft ropes and leather, wood, lexan, rubber(hurts so good) and plastic implements. when it comes to blistering my bottom variety is the spank of life! can i get a joyful yeouch! buttwed
Does leather and wood count?
I think the sight, sensation and sound of wood and leather makes me all dizzy. The symbolism wipes me out as much as the sensation.
I would like him to try silk blindfolds but I think he is more about the burn than the yearn at the moment. ;)
Frankly, all I need is the firm skin of a hard male palm, landing on the soft skin of my soft female bottom. S.
In a word, no. So I can't add to this conversation.
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