Saturday, February 18, 2012

MBS Spanko Brunch #318

Finally, the weekend is upon us. Our question this time comes from our dear friend A'Marie. The topic is duration.

How long does your average spanking last? What's the longest time you've ever spanked or been spanked? Is a longer spanking generally more effective? On those occasions when a spanking continues longer than usual, what are the reasons?

For anyone new, the brunch works like this - readers enter their responses as comments and at the end of the weekend, I post an edited summary. I'd like to hear what you think.

18 comments :

SublimeWifey said...

What an interesting question. I've never really thought about the time a spanking takes. I think my longest spanking might have been one of the first I ever received, mostly because this was new and my husband was taking his time - worried, nervous, but enjoying it all the same. It was only 10 or 15 barehanded swats with lots of wait time in between. On the other hand the most spanks I ever received -100 quick wrist-flicking swats with a wooden spoon - didn't take long at all; 10 sets of 10 with short breaks in between to check his work. All this to say time disappears during a spanking; it's just about the count and the sensation and even that becomes relative. I have no idea how long a spanking takes or if longer ones are more effective. I do know that each time I've been spanked it's been just the right amount.

TheVBB said...

The average discipline spanking last about 20 minutes. That includes scolding, the actual spanking, breaks to change implements, additional scolding and the final "lets finish this up" spanking. If its a play spanking it can last between 10 minutes to 30 minutes depending how she feels or how playful she is. Sometimes she gets so involved in the play spanking that she looses all sense of time and just keeps on going until she gets tired.

Spanking Photo Blog said...

Hi, Bonnie, I think that in a spanking session, the time is not important. Al most depend of pleasure of the Master and submission of slave.

A good spankee is more receptive to long sessions! My wife and I, for example, play a spanking for a couple of hours. But when she deserves a severe punishment, the time of the session is less and the outcome more painful.

Best Regards

Enzo and Charlotte

Hermione said...

I find it difficult to remember to look at the clock both before and after a spanking, but our sessions last anywhere from five to fifteen minutes. The longer the better, as far as I am concerned.

Spankings are shorter when they are a prelude to other erotic activities. The longer ones are for stress relief or for fun, and they tend to go on longer if we have a generous assortment of implements to use.

Elysia said...

How long does your average spanking last? I would say 15 min to 1/2 hour, from announcement to completion. That does not include cuddles and aftercare. What's the longest time you've ever spanked or been spanked? Likely it was close to an hour, with breaks in between. This when we had the house to ourselves. Like Hermoine, I don't look at the clock, lol.I'm just guessing. Is a longer spanking generally more effective? Longer spankings are punishment or erotic. Obviously with different purposes, lol. H changes to implements for a punishment: Hand,leather paddle, wooden paddle and sometimes back through them again. And erotic spanking is just drawn out b/c of interspersed other activities, lol. On those occasions when a spanking continues longer than usual, what are the reasons? Punishment. They are harder, and longer. H often begins spanking hard, changing implements, taking a break, having me stand up and sometimes go back over for more. It can take time to make sure he's done his job properly. Great questions Bonnie.

Reece Seever said...

All of our sessions are for discipline/punishment. While the seem to last forever, in reality, the spanking itself probably lasts 5 minutes.

Joan said...

It's one of those events where time goes relative and wonky. I couldn't even tell you.

OldFashionedGirl said...

Must find the stopwatch function on my phone... Actually, times vary. A quickie when the kids are out has to be just that, a minute or two and that's it.
More memorable sessions have last an hour or so if you set that stopwatch running when the warning finger was shaken in my direction and turned it off as the corner time ended.

Penelope said...

Joan puts it just right for me - "time goes relative and wonky." I've been spanked countless times and I really couldn't guess what the average duration was. Just generally 'pretty long', as my wonderful better half understands that I can never get enough. Bless him x

Spankedhortic II said...

How long does your average spanking last? - I prefer longer spankings, at least a half hour and normally an hour.

What's the longest time you've ever spanked or been spanked? - It was not continuous and there was a lot of two person am dram between the actual spankings but It was over and afternoon and an evening. I would guess about 9 hours.

Is a longer spanking generally more effective? - Yes the longer the play the higher I fly :)

On those occasions when a spanking continues longer than usual, what are the reasons? - Usually time available for both parties and a good place to play.

Prefectdt

Daisychain said...

How about early morning till late at night????
While with Davey, one day he decided to give me a maintenance spanking; I got 100 swats EVERY HALF HOUR, throughout the day!!! I posted on my blog about it, on 11th Feb. xxxxx

Anonymous said...

D :Time does not come into it, as the rate of spanking can vary from slow to fast, so it is up to me to decide when S and her lovely bottom have been spanked enough to meet her needs,and mine, and this can vary a lot !
S : My longest spanking was when I was in for one, and I rashly said, "Bet you can't make me ask you to stop". D smiled, "Oh yes I can", and in a moment, I was bare bottomed over his knee, with my hands tied to the legs of the chair to stop me bouncing up, and then his broad palm started spanking down onto my tight bottom, hard and steadily. On and on it went, I don't know how long, but my bottom was soon burning and smarting, and felt twice it's usual size. I would have loved to beg for mercy, but I was determined to stick it out, and stayed squirming and yelling across D's lap. At last, it must have been twenty minutes, he paused, "I think my palm stings more than you bottom, Susan ?" He reached out for a wooden hair brush, and down that came onto my now super tender cheeks. Five was enough."Stop David please, that's enough, you win". He helped me up; my bottom really hurt, but I also felt very randy. No way could I lie down,
so had to bend over again for a memorable rogering.
Luckily the next day was Sunday, so no work which was just as well, as no way could I sit, and I was tender for several days after that . S

Respecting Mistress said...

Like Reece Seever, our sessions are purely punishment. Mistress tends to cane me in batches of 12 with a short break of no more than 30s between batches. She normally give me 36 maximum and then I'm released from the bench to continue my chores. Sometimes though I can go over that bench several times in a day. Before we adopted our DD lifestly, our more 'playful sessions' used to last all evening, using straps, paddles, a crop and canes but I never recevied any one implement
for long that a couple of minutes I'd guess. It's a really tough question because, like others have noted, it seems like you're bent over for ages when in fact, if you analyse it, 36 strokes of the cane, with maybe no more than 10s between each stroke isn't going to take any time at all (360s actually plus two breaks of 30s - seven minutes). When you think about the incredble roller-coaster of emotions you go through during that time it's amazing.

ronnie said...

It depends on the type of spankings. Can be a quick OTK lasting five minutes to a long OTK lasting thirty minutes or more. The longer the better I say.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Tenth Muse Top said...

Ahhh... lovely question. I would say that, rather like sex, the length of the spanking depends on whether it is a 'quickie', a prolonged session, a semi-serious 'correction' or just an adventure!... So between a few minutes and er... a couple of days, with the usual breaks for food, making love and dozing in between! And in that sense, the longer the better!

I'm a Top, but my partner's pleasure and her responses are essential to my pleasure, so consensuality is my guide in the end... I may take her to the limit, or tease her below what she wants, to nearly the point of rebellion - so long as she is still with me - variety is the spice of life!

And every now and then, she turns the tables on me and then, not being that great at being on the other end, boy is my teasing brought home to erm.. roast! LOL

morningstar said...

i would say that the "average" spanking session for us runs anywhere from 30 minutes to 60 minutes. I do know that the tick tock of a clock is not what makes a session effective or good - sometimes the endorphins kick in quickly other times - not so much so. The endorphins - for me - are what make a session effective.

As for how effective a longer session is.. i can say that there is such a thing as TOO long. A couple of summers ago my partner (at the time) and myself agreed to do a spanking demo. The arrangement was 30 minutes on - 30 minutes off.

Unfortunately the other couple never showed up .. and so the spanking demo went on for just over 2hours... at the end i was not coherent - in fact couldn't form sentences - my body was shaking and my sugar dropped dangerously low. I can honestly say there is such a thing as too long a session.. and would never allow myself to be put into that kind of situation ever again.

A'marie said...

Hurrah. :D

I don't know that I have an average, but something akin to 10 minutes. The longest has probably been about 20 minutes.

Effective? I'm not sure, I think more experimenting is called for. ;) As to being extended, I have always been the one to indicate a spanking is over. If that were ever to change, it would probably be my mouth that extended the time frame.

Lea said...

Very interesting question and coincidentally something I was just discussing with a friend. I never quite know how to end a scene. The top usually does it. As someone with remarkable marking abilities and a somewhat low pain tolerance, my spankings don't usually NEED to be too long to get the point across.

If I had to guess I'd say they are usually 5-10 minutes but I'm not exactly timing them. Playful ones are definitely shorter than disciplinary ones. Those can be longer but not just for the spanking itself, there are often breaks for corner time or where I'm being lectured, things like that.

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