tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post5473825037641894249..comments2024-03-23T11:22:28.132-07:00Comments on My Bottom Smarts: Recap: MBS Sunday Brunch for Mar 17Bonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-27716195169183329202013-03-21T19:05:36.060-07:002013-03-21T19:05:36.060-07:00Roz - Shakespeare said, "All's well that ...<b>Roz</b> - Shakespeare said, "All's well that ends well," and so it is for us. But that's easy for him to say because it's my end! :)<br /><br /><b>Terpsichore</b> - There's something about being stretched that way that makes everything hurt a lot more. It's definitely not a favorite, but that's probably why he chose it at that moment.<br /><br /><b>Jenny</b> - That's a great question. We don't do punishment, it's true, though it may look that way without an explanation of the context.<br /><br />He is dominant and I am submissive. We chose these roles before we even knew those words. He has the right to exercise his dominance as he sees fit. My role is to accept all he has to give. I trust him to look out for my best interests and not endanger my physical or emotional health. I have a safeword for those rare occasions when we get too out of sync.<br /><br />Last week, I wasn't being punished for doing anything wrong or displeasing Randy. He decided to exert his dominance and test my submission. Due to a combination of factors, I wasn't in the ideal mindset initially. Interestingly, once we finished with the evening's festivities, I was in a great mood - contented, relaxed, and no longer stressed.<br />Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-8977447714625601242013-03-20T20:21:50.760-07:002013-03-20T20:21:50.760-07:00I thought you didn't do punishment, Bonnie. Is...I thought you didn't do punishment, Bonnie. Is a discussion different from a punishment?Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08975662606546664614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-70663761817822325202013-03-19T18:42:32.567-07:002013-03-19T18:42:32.567-07:00very interesting question and answers. Hubby has ...very interesting question and answers. Hubby has played a couple of times in that position and I dislike, it too. Glad you were able to work things out...Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-29987474659544415672013-03-18T03:08:17.980-07:002013-03-18T03:08:17.980-07:00I'm sorry this happened Bonnie, and I'm gl...I'm sorry this happened Bonnie, and I'm glad you were able to work through it. I don't think I would take well to that position.<br /><br />Some interesting comments.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com