tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post3468779289325879458..comments2024-03-23T11:22:28.132-07:00Comments on My Bottom Smarts: Spanking 101: Talking with Your PartnerBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-75202168230188622312007-01-20T07:11:00.000-08:002007-01-20T07:11:00.000-08:00Angel - Hi, and welcome!
If this blog has one maj...<b>Angel</b> - Hi, and welcome!<br /><br />If this blog has one major theme, it is that being a spanko is not abnormal, unheathy, or weird. Look around and you will find lots of happy, successful, well-adjusted people who happen to enjoy recreational spanking as a fun extension of their love life.<br /><br />If you have any questions, please feel free to write me and I will gladly assist if I can.<br /><br /><b>Elis</b> - Thanks!<br /><br /><b>Tigger</b> - Thank you.<br /><br /><b>Paul</b> - You're most welcome. This is a topic about which I've wanted to write for a long time. I hesitated because (a) I never had precisely this experience (Randy and I discovered our mutual interest while playing), and (b) the outcome can be very negative should the partner reject such a proposal.<br /><br />I spent quite a bit of time trying to balance my presentation so as to not inappropriately encourage anyone with genuine reservations, yet provide some hopefully useful insight for those who decide to take the leap.<br /><br /><b>Maggie</b> - I hope this proves to be helpful, for you especially.<br /><br /><b>Mike</b> - Thanks. I didn't mean to suggest that the issue should be raised every few days. I should have said to wait a few days after making an initial contact to allow the partner time to process this information.<br /><br /><b>Carye</b> - Thank you! It's for good folks like you I write this blog.<br /><br />Here's a spankee secret... If you want your partner to spank harder, but you don't want to say those words, try this. As he is spanking you (presumably lightly), just lie there. Don't move. Don't tense. Don't make any sound. Eventually, he will decide that what he's doing has no effect, and hopefully, turn it up a notch.<br /><br />If you want to go the comedy route, try an exaggerated stage yawn. This may get you a whole lot more than you bargained for (it does for me!), but it's a fun way to express your wishes in a non-verbal fashion.<br /><br /><b>Doc</b> - I have a number of books I want to write someday when life is less crazy. The trouble is that I can't see that happening any time soon.<br /><br />When our daughter left home, I imagined that I would have all of this extra free time. In theory, I do, but it quickly gets filled with other activities, like blogging. Oh well.<br /><br /><b>A'Marie</b> - I think your challenge is to draw a clear line of demarcation between those bad memories and what happens in your relationship. Make yours an enjoyable expression of love.<br /><br />There are some partners who simply cannot accept this lifestyle and others who do so only reluctantly. Hopefully, Bill will see the benefits and recognize how different this is from his parents' experience. But as you know all too well, it might not happen.<br /><br />I wish you both a life of happiness in whatever form it may take.<br /><br /><b>Todd and Suzy</b> - Thanks!<br /><br /><b>Ashleigh</b> - Welcome! I'm glad you stopped by. If I can provide any help, please feel free to write me.<br /><br />I wish you well with your new blog. I just linked it and I plan to add it to my regular rounds.Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-45070310033221735912007-01-18T00:47:00.000-08:002007-01-18T00:47:00.000-08:00Hi, I'm new here. Maggie sent me in your direction...Hi, I'm new here. Maggie sent me in your direction for some advice and I definatly got some! Great post and Great advice!! I'll definatly keep checking out your blog! Keep up the good work!!!<br /><br />AshleighAshleighhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07668046128373862588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-34284442305838706792007-01-18T00:24:00.000-08:002007-01-18T00:24:00.000-08:00Great advice, Bonnie. Especially about offering r...Great advice, Bonnie. Especially about offering reading material. Spanking erotica is a great way to introduce the topic. It can be so-so difficult to explain an interest in spanking. The emotions and feelings that are felt. Sharing a story... tailored to fit... is a good way to get the ball rolling.<br /><br />:)<br />~Todd & SuzyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-78113867309367542372007-01-17T22:44:00.000-08:002007-01-17T22:44:00.000-08:00Wonderful read. :) (As always.)
Bill still isn't ...Wonderful read. :) (As always.)<br /><br />Bill still isn't comfortable with the idea of spanking, don't know if he ever will be. Not sure if we will overcome that obstacle, as his father was abusive to his mother, and that's a whole different ballgame.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-70632395194737713542007-01-17T21:53:00.000-08:002007-01-17T21:53:00.000-08:00Wouldn't it be fun to have a "Don't Sweat the Smal...Wouldn't it be fun to have a "Don't Sweat the Small Stuff," for spankos? Bonnie could totally write it. This would be like some of the top subjects.Dochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12031289798206758042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-83766433339204739912007-01-17T19:05:00.000-08:002007-01-17T19:05:00.000-08:00Hi Bonnie,
I love your 101's! Looks like we are o...Hi Bonnie,<br /><br />I love your 101's! Looks like we are on the right track. We communicate all the time. I sure wish society hadn't taught him #6! With lots of communication the spankings are slowly getting harder and more where I'm hoping! Your site has made me so much more comfortable being a spanko. You are truely "the angel of the spank waves" as Paul said! I learn more from you guys! It is amazing! Some day I know I'll learn to blog too! :-) Lets see, we've been working on this for hmmm.. .16 years or so now (well we did have a hiatus for a while), we'll get there eventually.. or maybe not. Maybe we will just continue to grow closer and closer together for ever!<br /><br />CaryeCaryagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18283871229312401932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-72876562805718232242007-01-17T17:50:00.000-08:002007-01-17T17:50:00.000-08:00Bonnie: you have a talent of explaining the spanki...Bonnie: you have a talent of explaining the spanking gene that we have. I only disagree with #8 saying wait a few days. Every few days bringing up the spanking topic trying to entice your partner into the lifestyle would be too much too often in my mind.<br />bottoms up<br />Mikedwcmikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03806485946085631802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-60682339224222320722007-01-17T14:00:00.000-08:002007-01-17T14:00:00.000-08:00Bonnie, Again a very informative post.
PK: See M...Bonnie, Again a very informative post.<br /><br />PK: See Maggie read. See Maggie print. See Maggie faint! okay ... so I didn't faint. I'm getting there, I'm trying. *sigh*<br /><br />~Hugs Bonnie, and thanks again :)MaggieDearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07942979257006640317noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-21365701615516851922007-01-17T09:54:00.000-08:002007-01-17T09:54:00.000-08:00Bonnie, I think we are going to have to name you "...Bonnie, I think we are going to have to name you "the Angel of the spank-waves". God alone knows how many people you have helped with your Spanking 101's and other articles in MBS.<br />So a big thank you.<br />Warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-9458669750043404602007-01-17T07:20:00.000-08:002007-01-17T07:20:00.000-08:00Great information, Bonnie!!!
*hugs*
TiggerGreat information, Bonnie!!!<br /><br />*hugs*<br />TiggerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-57129045917160654102007-01-17T03:29:00.000-08:002007-01-17T03:29:00.000-08:00Bonnie,
This is wonderful information. Even thoug...Bonnie,<br />This is wonderful information. Even thought we have been spanking a while all of this is good to hear again.<br /><br />I hope Maggie is listening!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-26506861503446024402007-01-17T00:45:00.000-08:002007-01-17T00:45:00.000-08:00I'm a new reader on this site, and I just wanted t...I'm a new reader on this site, and I just wanted to say that I enjoy reading your blog very much, especially your personal experiences and very much especially the tutorials. And most likely the brunches, once I get around to reading those. They are all helping me to accept the part of me that is a spanko. I'm fairly new to the whole concept, since I've only consciously known that I was "into" spanking for the past year or so. I haven't been spanked since I was a child, and I'm almost scared to be spanked now that I am an adult. I cannot even imagine bringing up the subject to my boyfriend at this point, but this post was informative nonetheless. Fortunately, because of sites with blogs or forums, I am becoming more comfortable with the idea, and your site is becoming the biggest help as I continue to read. Thanks!! <br /><br />~Angel~Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com