tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post114027852975005611..comments2024-03-23T11:22:28.132-07:00Comments on My Bottom Smarts: Spanking 101: ConsentBonniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1143841984617735582006-03-31T13:53:00.000-08:002006-03-31T13:53:00.000-08:00Hi, The Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention ...Hi, The Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy has been updated this year if anyone cares to check it out:<BR/><BR/>http://www.antioch-college.edu/Campus/sopp/index.html<BR/><BR/>Hope you find it an interesting read!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140403173851670372006-02-19T18:39:00.000-08:002006-02-19T18:39:00.000-08:00Mike - The arrangement you describe parallels ours...<B>Mike</B> - The arrangement you describe parallels ours fairly closely. I have found the safeword to be handy on a few occasions. I use it rarely, but I am very grateful to have that option.<BR/><BR/><B>Tigger</B> - This thing we do is all about trust, isn't it?<BR/><BR/><B>CeeCi</B> - Thank you!<BR/><BR/><B>Marcus</B> - I imagine converting a hesitant vanilla has to be a real challenge. Obviously, you've proven yourself to be up to the task several times.<BR/><BR/><B>Paul</B> - Yes, I completely agree. Mutual trust and understanding are the cornerstones of a successful relationship, be it vanilla or double chocolate hot fudge ripple tin roof rocky road swirl with whipped cream, nuts, bananas, sprinkles, and a cherry on top.<BR/><BR/><B>C</B> - Thanks!<BR/><BR/>When that policy was announced about ten years ago, I recall that the late night commedians had a field day with it. In a way, that's a shame because the intent behind it was valid. They sought to eliminate date rape. <BR/><BR/>On the other hand, you can't enforce a policy that is so contrary to human nature (especially healthy 18-22 year old human nature).<BR/><BR/><B>Rivka</B> - Thanks!Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09061952016296339760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140398763214035772006-02-19T17:26:00.000-08:002006-02-19T17:26:00.000-08:00Good thoughts; good read.Good thoughts; good read.rivkahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08227437711801799412noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140376627777814622006-02-19T11:17:00.000-08:002006-02-19T11:17:00.000-08:00Hello Bonnie,Really enjoyed your description of wh...Hello Bonnie,<BR/><BR/>Really enjoyed your description of what consensual agreement between a couple actually entails.<BR/><BR/>The comment you made at the beginning of your article concerning the policy agreement set up by Antioch College really tickled me! That would kill all sense of sensuality and romance!<BR/>I think I would rather satisfy myself than have to go through all that rigmarole!<BR/><BR/>CC's Correctionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17415284945340920315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140374269104608322006-02-19T10:37:00.000-08:002006-02-19T10:37:00.000-08:00Yes consent was a hard nut to crack. It took Mel a...Yes consent was a hard nut to crack. <BR/>It took Mel and I a couple of years to sort out, when we progressed to a D / D relationship a lot more talk.<BR/>By this time we knew and trusted each other completely, Mel had a safeword, it was never used.<BR/>Thanks for a thought provoking post, very helpful for wanabies and beginners.<BR/>Hugs.<BR/>Paul.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140321162928671862006-02-18T19:52:00.000-08:002006-02-18T19:52:00.000-08:00It very much fits what I've thought my entire life...It very much fits what I've thought my entire life. It's why when I've shared my early spanking experiences, all of them have started off hesitant.Markhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12541854497724789737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140317564824451252006-02-18T18:52:00.000-08:002006-02-18T18:52:00.000-08:00You've hit the mark again with this Spanking 101. ...You've hit the mark again with this Spanking 101. I completely agree, consent is the key.CeeCihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00379014051773420063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140311697654202152006-02-18T17:14:00.000-08:002006-02-18T17:14:00.000-08:00I totally agree!!! In being submissive, I never f...I totally agree!!! In being submissive, I never feel like I'm giving up conrtrol, but rather letting my hubby kinda "have his way with me" because I want him to. I love and trust him and know that he would never do anything that I didn't want him to do.<BR/><BR/>*hugs*<BR/>TiggerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17086386.post-1140306905042104382006-02-18T15:55:00.000-08:002006-02-18T15:55:00.000-08:00Well written Bonnie, we totally agree. Our relatio...Well written Bonnie, we totally agree. Our relationship allows my wife to spank me whenever and however she chooses, but not to do bodily or permanent damage. I have the right to say no, if the timing is wrong.(someone else is present, and our excusing ourself for the moment would be obvious) A safe word exists, but has never been needed. <BR/>I love reading your thoughts when time permits.dwcmikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03806485946085631802noreply@blogger.com